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Ok My boyfriend keeps asking me to kick him in his balls as hard as I can, and he says he's "into it." I love my boyfriend and I will do anything that makes him Happy He would do the same for me To but is this normal
Um, it's your call on that one, consider these people's comments, but please,
MAKE SURE YOU'RE SAFE.
And by that I mean, yeah, he might be into it, but don't let him smack you around unless you're into that stuff too or whatever. Please make sure he knows this, and if it gets outta hand, stop. It's not like he's the only guy on the planet too, so draw your boundaries and stick to it, if he crosses them, end it. It's not worth getting seriously hurt or killed.
ive heard of that! its a weird japanese fetish called tamakeri...wouldnt say its normal...but...its up to u....i wouldnt say its the safest thing to do even if hes down for it though...
Your boyfriend is probably a masochist, meaning he derives sexual pleasure from pain and humiliation. Go ahead, kick him in the balls.
I think it's pretty normal, but that's because I enjoy it. Nothing to hard, but soft repetitive kicks to the underlying part of my testicles gets me really hard. I'm even married with two children. We don't do it all the time, and my wife will instigate sometimes. I'm pretty sure my "fetish" came from years of growing up with an older sister who participated in taekwondo and watching her beautiful friends spar with their long legs and feet. I even tried it later on and got really excited the first time I got my groin "tapped". I was wearing a cup though, but I still remember this woman's foot disappearing into my crotch for a second. I've had other relationships before I was married and I was honest with them. Some agreed....some didn't...one wanted me to handle her foot cause she didn't want to do the work. That was weird cause it was like I was the one hitting myself in the balls.
Anyhow I would try it out cause you really don't know how it might be or not be enjoyable for both of you.
Normal as in is he the only one? No he isn't. I have met a few men in my life that have been into it and told me because of my involvement in Martial Arts. My problem with it stems from the danger of it. I am pretty open minded and can at least consider a fetish but this one is dangerous. Often, these men need more and more. It may start with a tap but then they want it harder and harder and that is when you are dancing close to the line. Lets look at it another way. Say he likes being poked in the chest with a stick and that graduates to shoving a knife in his chest. Would you legally be responsible for killing him? Sure would! Even if he asked you to do it. We're talking about repeated internal damage over a long period of time. The other side is, its a selfish fetish. Where is your payoff? Is that the only way he can get hard? Is he capable of performing? I want to be a partner, not to just be his fetish conduit.
It's a kink.
It's normal to be sexual deviants, but you need to be careful. Do some research about safe ways to give him pain that he wants. Make sure to help him with the correct aftercare as well.
You definitely don't want to cause him permanent damage.
You should try it for him! Start slow and not to hard. And if you dont like it tell him! And meet eachother half the way.
I wouldnt say its normal, because its not a big thing that many likes. Wich makes it a weird thing.
But i can tell you this! Im one of the leaders in a membersgroup in my country, that loves this! We are 1200 members and 400 of them are girls!
Write to me if you need advice about something in this subject, im happy to help! :)
I am a seeker just like your BF, partially for the effect, also to see how many would do it and WHERE IN THE WORLD THOSE WOMEN ARE THAT WOULD for fun or without provocation etc.
Kick in him the balls as much as you want, but don't plan on making any babies with him.
Serioisly not normal. But then again everyone has their own things that turn them on, so go right ahead and yeah play safe. You wouldn't want to end up marrying the guy, figuring out he's infertile cause o these weird sex games, and have to just go, oooh shit......
take it from a person who is also "into it", this is totally normal. I'm not sure why but pain (nothing intense) and being dominated/forced turns me on like you wouldnt beleive... it's hard to explain but yeh he likes it. People are right tho, kicking someones balls can be life damaging. Try exploring a bit with this. The next time he wants you too tell him he's been a bad boy and needs to be punished, see if he's into being tied up and shit like that. Have fun and play safe!
ok ok
my boyfirend like being kick in the ass with my toe it not normal ok
My bf is the same thing. He wants me to kick his balls with my knee, especially when he least expects it. He gets turned on by it. Though, it turns me off.
Since others gave you advise I don't feel bad for LMAO. I'm sorry, but this one cracked me up
He could be just messing around with you knowing that you wont really do it...just try a light kick see what he does...but this is the first i ever heard about a guy enjoying this
Some guys are into that kinda shit, but if you ask me, that is very strange. I can't understand why any man would want to endure that pain. Don't kick your boyfriend in the balls, that can cause serious damage. If you ever want to have kids, you might want to consider dating someone that isn't into destroying their reproductive system.
there are people who tends to get their pleasure by pain. try to search "BDSM" in wikipedia. also, be careful not to hit it too hard because he might die on that. and also, be careful of yourself not to do EVERYTHING your boyfriend tells you to do.
dont forget to search "BDSM" in wiki. :)