Is it weird to date a girl born in 1974

If I was born in 1997?

We met on Tinder and we have many similar interests and hobbies. The age gap is big, but it doesn’t bother me. I think she looks good as well.

Is It Normal?
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  • 1974? That's not a girl. Thats a matured woman.

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  • I agree I think he should only pursue it if he's serious about it and absolutely sure.

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    • hauntedbysandwiches, we need to talk. You're being very disrespectful right now. How do you know the OP identifies as a man? You need to educate yourself and RESPECT people's gender identities and pronouns. Do you know how traumatic this is? SMH. People like you are the issue.

      And let's talk about how sexist this comment is. The fact that you automatically assumed this was a man and not a woman just shows you favor men. Change your sexist mindset you sexist bigot.

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  • Just date your big mommy and don't give a shit what people say

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  • I had a 45 year old gf when I was 24 a 21 year old difference, I'm 29 now she is 50 now I thought I was bad lol. 1974 is an old lady bud not walking cane old just getting mature. If you're happy then yeah it's normal o guess

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  • As long as you can overcome generational divides there’s nothing wrong with it. Gen X women are pretty amazing.

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  • Like SaddleGoose said, Dont let your dick do the thinking. Of course if both of you are just in it for short term fun, Go ahead. But make sure the two of you know each other's intentions with this relationship VERY CLEARLY FROM THE START.

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  • A 48 year old girl… weird wording. Age gap is fine and no one else’s opinion or preference matters.

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  • I'm not a fan of large age gaps.

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  • Can you just state the ages so I don't have to do math? Mid-20s dating late-40s is weird, yes.

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  • My opinion is people can like whoever the fuck they want to, as long as they are not forcing or coercing them into sexual activity. That is ALL. I don't get what is so hard about that for people to understand.

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  • If thats what you are into. I dated a woman in her 30s when I was pretty young it always felt kind of wrong

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  • Not that it's not illegal but it just feels a bit weird dating someone who is old enough to be someone's mother.

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  • Not normal but not illegal..both are adults. I'd say 23 years is a pretty significant age gap though so there may be some issues there.

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