Is it normal when my mom tells me that i am the reason for her cancer?

My mom keeps saying that I am the reason for her cancer. Sometimes she would say that she hates me and she wishes that I was never born.

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Based on 33 votes (3 yes)
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  • SwickDinging

    Unless you are going to reveal a very weird story about you secretly exposing your mother to radiation every night while she slept, then I highly doubt that you are responsible for your mother's cancer.

    She sounds like a dick. Just ignore her.

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  • have_a_good_day

    If that hoe was in da hood right now we would tell her that cancer runs in da family. Her mother is probably da reason for giving it to her.
    Hopefully you can get cancer because then you can rub it in her cancerous face that she gave you cancer. That'll show her.
    Fahreal.
    That's what's up

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  • Tommythecaty

    Sounds like a charming individual

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  • RoseIsabella

    WTF, NO! Why the Hell would you be the reason for your mom's cancer? What on Earth could you have possibly done to have caused her cancer?

    I think you're not responsible for your mother's cancer.

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  • Somenormie

    She sounds like an actual shithead.

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  • BleedingPain

    My therapist told me long ago that people who say “youre the reason for x” when you couldn’t possibly have any connection is typically a form of emotional projection.

    Even if they express their emotion to you, they are angry at you, not because of you.

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  • Mammal-lover

    just tell her you wish she was never born as well

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  • Clunk42

    California thinks everything causes cancer.

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  • CDmale4fem

    Im no doctor, but it sounds to me like your mom is lashing out to blame someone else to avoid taking responsibility for her actions. Unless you injected her with cancer cells, im pretty sure whatever you do in life will not cause her cancer. If she wants to continue to blame you, then do like i did about 15 years ago. I pretty much let my mom know i was tired of her bullshit. I havent talked to her since. I miss her at times, i love her cuz shes my mom but i cant stand the way she feels the world revolves around ger and everything is always someone elses fault. She is never wrong in her mind. I got so sick of that attitude. We are human, we make mistakes.

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  • Obviously you are not the reason for her cancer. Why does she resent you?

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  • Boojum

    What does she base this opinion on? As far as I know, there's no form of cancer which has been shown to be caused by pregnancy. In fact, there have been studies which suggest that having had one or more children reduces the chances of breast, ovarian and endometrial cancer.

    Your mother sounds like a pretty stupid person, and one that's either deranged or just naturally hateful to boot. Being a parent can be stressful at times and some kids seem to be either born obnoxious, learn to behave in obnoxious ways due to how they're raised or at least go through phases where they are that, but no sane, caring parent would ever tell their child that they wish they'd never been born.

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  • COVID-19

    What kind of cancer does she have and how are you responsible for it? I fail to see any connection there. Tell her to fuck off?

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  • You're the reason for my headache.
    Some parents are more overly dramatic than 13 year old girls. Just ignore it if you can.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    My mom had lupus and the family and her use to always say "you are killing ur mother" lol

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  • my_life_my_way

    It’s not normal for to hate you but she is in pain/sick and probably saying things she doesn’t really mean. Most parents resent having children though, even if they love them.

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