Is it normal to want your boyfriend to do weird things to you?

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I'm 20 and lost my virginity about 5 months ago. I still feel fairly new to it but I was wondering if it's normal to want your boy friend to rape you and some other things......I'm pretty sure it's weird, I even surprised myself when I thought about. But do you think he would look at me funny if I told him. ( but since it would be him, I don't think you can really call it rape) I don't know, I feel kind of trigger happy and I want to try everything......do you think I'm pushing it or is there like a stage/time in the relationship where you can ask questions like that?

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  • quentari
    10 years ago | pl

    Well it wouldn't be rape, because you'd have to consent to it. Having a safe-word to use instead of "no" can make for a fun roleplay, if he's into that sort of thing. Maybe broach the subject of fetishes, fantasies etc after your next sex session. I find that's the best time to talk about sex topics.

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    • LC23
      10 years ago

      :D thank you

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  • Couman
    10 years ago

    It's not weird, it's actually normal. If you look at lists of common fantasies for women, this frequently comes in first, or close to it.

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  • Gamzeee
    10 years ago

    K!nky

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  • Eas1206
    10 years ago

    Let your freak flag fly! Experimenting is the only way you're going to find out what you're into! Just make sure if you play out a rape fantasy that you guys pre-arrange safe word in case things get a little bit too intense.

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    • LC23
      10 years ago

      Lol! Your comment made me laugh. I'll try, but some people above started making me regret asking, but it's not like I'm going to file for rape against my boyfriend.....I just want to feel completely dominated and kind of helpless. I trust him though and he loves me but I think because of that he might not want to do it and i get the feeling he would laugh at me if I asked. But I get what I want eventually....and thanks for the safe word advice.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    It's called Rape-play and with the right person it's really nice!

    If you have these thoughts about your sexlife you should tell your boyfriend because trust me, you won't be truly happy in bed until you embrace your fantasies.

    I tried for four years, never- ever "normal" sex for me again xD

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    • LC23
      10 years ago

      Lol you're making me feel jealous........I'm going to work up the courage to ask him. Thanks so much :D

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      • (s)aint
        10 years ago

        You are welcome and good luck!

        I'm currently having the best sex ever with my current boyfriend that ALMOST enjoys all the things that I do myself.

        Communication is the key!

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    What the hell is wrong with people these day's, everyone's like "rape, never tried that before, let's give it a go"

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    • WhatAnEntertainingMorning
      10 years ago

      Amen sir/maam.

      Ask a man who's been falsely accused of that evil whether this is a desirable fantasy... *vomits*

      That said... we all have our quirks I guess, and if that gets you off and it gets him off and you're both happy and have no evil in your hearts, who am I to tell you it's wrong? "Whatever floats your boat"

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