Is it normal to text someone when ur married

my bf hung out with this girl like 3 years ago now haven’t talked to her in awhile. now she’s married and randomly adds him again on snapchat and ask’s “did you feel the earthquake” ? like wtf. UR MARRIED. why is she snapping him asking about an earthquake? she lives 3 states away too... so confused. they aren’t friends

Is It Normal?
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  • Why are you so worried about your ex?

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  • men can have friends

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    • what if their gf is uncomfortable with it?

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      • Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Personally, I think that if you can't trust your boyfriend around other women, your relationship is doomed to fail. Why be with someone you feel you can't trust?

        Besides, even if you forbid him from being friends with other girls, he will do it if he really wants to.

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        • she’s fucking married and lives in texas, we live in california. they met off tinder. why would they wanna be friends

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          • I have no clue, but if you truly trust your boyfriend, it shouldn't matter. If he loves you, he will not allow their relationship to advance beyond friendship.

            If you find it suspicious and don't trust him, I'd rethink the relationship or at the very least have a serious talk about trust. At the end of the day though, no matter how hard you try and what ultimatums you give, he's going to do what he wants and feel how he feels.

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      • You sound very possessive and insecure. Would you get rid of all your friends if your boyfriend was uncomfortable?

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        • guy friends? sure. i don’t really have that many

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  • Youre a shallow.
    Small.
    jealous, insecure person.
    If you live outside calif.
    Its only natural to ask people you know there if they felt anything.
    IT NATIONAL NEWS.

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    • but
      they
      don’t
      TALK

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  • Well it would seem that they are, in fact, friends.

    You don't cease to have friends just because you're married or in a relationship.

    You sound possessive and controlling.

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    • they don’t talk though. she even deleted him for awhile on snapchat, and then randomly readded him. and she doesn’t even live in the same state

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      • Who cares? Why are you so fixated on something innocuous?

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        • it’s just confusing and she’s been rude to me in the past

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  • I disagree with everyone. Why tf is she snapping him

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    • she’s married now and when my bf and her did hang it was 3 years ago for a couple weeks bc she was in cali for vacation, she lives in texas. we had a earthquake the other day and she snap texted him and said “did you survive the earthquake?”

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      • I know I read it but I’m saying like I don’t think she should have been hitting him up. I feel like if you have a problem with it then it’s a problem

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        • so what should i say

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          • Idk I’d bring it up to him and tell him how you feel. But I truly do think it’s weird that a married chick hit him up on snap

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            • even if it was just “did you survive the earthquake”

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