Is it normal to spend a long time defining things?
I've just been going through life for at least 6 months or so now just defining things in my life like what love is, what friendship means, what it means to be X, et al. Just random things in my day to day that I notice in a conversation or from people watching or whatever really. I just make a lot of connections that lead me to defining things better, more accurately, in ways that I can use it all with synergy in who I am in the moment.
I would say I'm a spiritual person following the karmic path.