Is it normal to sleepover at ....?

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Would any of you let your 11 years old girl to sleep over at her stepdad's house? I mean the couple are not living together anymore, but they still stay in touch. They have a boy (8yrs old) together and their houses like a 10mins away ( by walking). So almost every weekend, the little boy wants his stepsister to come over his house and sleep there with him. The boy is very much attached to his dad so he share the same bed with his dad ever since birth. So every time this little girl comes to sleep there, the 3 of them would sleep in one bed. Is it normal/right for a mom to let her daughter to sleepover like this?
P:S. the stepdad seems not to like his stepdaughter very much.

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  • mee999
    13 years ago

    Please be nice. I'm not the mom here. I'm just a friend who cares for that little girl but couldn't do anything to help or change her mom's mind.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    If the step dad doesn't care for the girl then why would she want to go over there and why would he allow her? You'll probably say for the little brother but if it wasn't a pleasant visit I can't imagine her wanting to go. If my parents had split when I was a child I would have stayed at my step dads all the time. I love him and blood relations don't make a father.

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  • Qzz
    11 years ago

    To be fair, the mom would know about his f$&k habits.

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  • bobmcay
    13 years ago

    NO HE IS A PEDOFILE!!!!!!!!!!

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  • sunoy14
    13 years ago

    i'd ask you to stop being so insecure and doubting. did you ever try finding about it?
    if not you are just insecure yourself and because of that about your daughter. i agree with devilla that she needs a father. and also more importantly a brother. she gets both of them out there. every child needs both parents. a mother or a father alone is not enough. if you dont understand these things, then you are not a capable mother. and morevover he lives nearby. sorry.

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    • SoloDad
      13 years ago

      i think the biggest concern here is the girls safety it's always the ones you least expect after all watch carefully for a personality change it may be only subtle at first depending on what happens and make sure the girl knows that anyone asking to keep secrets is afraid of getting into trouble themselves personally i wouldn't be letting the girl sleep there she can visit during the day under supervision but no chance in hell of a sleepover

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    how can I say that in a non-offensive way...
    Did you ever thought about maybe the guy's a pedophile!? you're really irresponsible. fuck you

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