Is it normal to quit masturbation for these reasons?

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The first period I ceased mastruabtion lasted for many many years, but the reason were different. The reason I stopped this time round was that 1. It got to the point were all of my masturbation sessions were very disappointing. I couldn't orgasm. I could feel myself approaching the summit, but it would stop there. Nothing I did could get me to the top. Believe me, I tried practically anything that I could think of. ( I couldn't get myself a proper adult toy). I tried vibrations from my game controller. I tried textures. Listening the my sexy music, music that used to work. A hair barrette. Gel pens. My bed and Pillows. Wearing basketball shorts with nothing underneath them. Standing and walking while masturbated felt great but again not great enough to make me fall down to my knees in mercy.

2. My vagina seemed to be numb. I couldn't feel enough and it wasn't anywhere as pleasurable as when I took back up masturbation after that first period.

I could've gone one without the need of masturbation, but my sexual feelings seem to be increasing. I have sexual fantasy that make me so aroused that I wish I could do something down there. Feeling through my clothing is doing a thing. IIN?

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  • EMJAY
    9 years ago

    Keep trying. To "get there", you need body AND mind. Try thinking of the thing that really turns you on, and get into it. To unlock your body, you need to unlock your mind.
    Good luck. :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Thank you, but I am starting to think this is impossible. I tried early this morning. Nothing worked. Standing, nothing. I even explored my vulva by the light, another disappointment. I felt sensations from some things but I never went to the top. Now that all of that sexual energy is spent, I am reminded why I quit in the first place.

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      • EMJAY
        9 years ago

        Well, that just sucks. :( Maybe you're focusing too much on the end goal? Try a glass of wine or something, and just take your time. :)
        Sometimes people build their own block and the only thing stopping them is themselves. I'm not saying that's what you're doing. It's just something to think about. :)

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  • sexysonofsam
    9 years ago

    I think what you need is some visual stimulation, I am willing to give it try are you?

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