Is it normal to only feel safe admitting you're enby to other nonbinaries?

Are you going to tell me boys with boobs are the same as cis boys too?

that is why I only tell people i actually trust or people I'm dating yeah.

Agreed with this. Unless you're worried about violent retaliation, just say it. If it's important to you, there's no such thing as telling the wrong person. Be yourself.

I just don't tend to tell people honestly. It isn't really most people's business that I'm not entirely cis but it does feel nice to actually be able to confide in someone without judgement or sometimes worse confused pressuring. But telling the wrong person does suck. I guess i'm just lucky i'm comfortable being treated like a boy even if i'm not comfortable being masculine. Some people don't feel comfortable either way oof.

The pronouns they chose tend to reflect their chosen identity. Even if a boy were to basically look like a woman they can still hold their male identity. Nonbinary is literally just not adhering to norms related to gender; Most people who de-transition end up becoming nonbinary because of how hard it is to fit back in after HRT.

Not really. They tend to prefer to be more feminine or androgynous. I prefer to be treated as boys are so I never really went full fem but I'm not really comfortable being masculine.