Is it normal to not flirt with girls cuz i'm nervous about next step

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So I'm a 18 years old guy, and my problem is that I don't like flirting with girls because I'm insecure/nervous about what's gonna come after. Do you have any suggestions how can I overcome this problem?

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  • Diego35LovesHilda29
    7 years ago

    Not to worry you will get over it especially after you get laid for the first time.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    7 years ago

    I was like you, and it was just because I wasn't ready.
    Also, if I did flirt (With a guy) and he flirted back, I'd stop and convince myself I didn't like him, because I was scared of what would be next. It was something unknown and scary.

    One day, I was ready. And it didn't feel scary anymore. It might a little bit, it 's just a different kind of scary. an exciting one, a good one!

    so i think it's normal, it's just about time, dont rush into things you are not comfortable doing yet :)

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    • gymguy13
      7 years ago

      Well I think it's kinda different with girls, thank you for the comment, there is some wise word there. :)

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      • yesnomaybeso
        7 years ago

        good luck <3

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        • gymguy13
          7 years ago

          thanks <3

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  • ojimpu
    6 years ago

    I bet you're feeling the pressure. Don't let it get you!

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  • treaclebears
    7 years ago

    Yes people get nervous :)

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