Is it normal to not enjoy intercourse?

I tried to you know, do it, the other day. It was just painful, there was nothing enjoyable about it. Is that normal?

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55% Normal
Based on 44 votes (24 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Take a break, and save yourself for someone you love who love's you too.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Normal in the situation. A lot of women enjoy stuff other than just penetration. Hurray for oral:)

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    • RoseIsabella

      Yes, and oral can't get you pregnant! :-)

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      • Unimportant

        Oh, you'd be surprised...

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  • LuxM4G

    Sex can be a very gratifying experience both physically and emotionally, unless physical or psychological certain conditions disable you from enjoying it.

    You say it was painful, I could speculate about various reasons why, but you should give more information about it.

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  • joon98

    a lot of people don't actually enjoy sex. i hear people complain about it a lot actually. either their partner doesn't know what they're doing or they were "ready to go" for it in the first place. i mean, I feel personally sex is over glorified by the media, making it look passionate and romantic and exciting when in reality it can be a really uncomfortable experience.
    totally normal.

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  • Nokiot9

    First time right? Yeah, I'm a guy and my first time totally sucked. The game ain't no fun unless you know how to play.

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  • Tawix

    For anyone who wants more info, I will admit that there was not a whole lot of foreplay plus I did not really feel very "in the mood."

    Maybe that was why.
    BTW, its not my partner who's the problem. It's probably me.

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    • thegypsysailor

      "BTW, its not my partner who's the problem. It's probably me."
      Sorry, I don't believe that for a second. Most certainly, you are mistaken.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa

    If it was your first time and your partner was inexperienced, that's probably why. It's great when they know what they're doing.

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  • thegypsysailor

    If you are a girl, then yes it is very normal. Like anything else, you rarely get it right the first time and with sex there are physical reasons why the first (or actually the first few) times don't feel good for some.
    But don't give up. If you haven't found an older, attentive, loving man yet, go find one.
    No young 'pretty boy' is going to have the experience, patience or desire that an older, more mature lover will have, nor will he be willing to concentrate on YOUR pleasure, rather than his own.

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  • Fish1973m

    It will only get better, have lots of foreplay and use lube if it hurts, trust me you will get to enjoy it, it's the best feeling ever :))

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