Is it normal to not care about family, but be kind to everyone else?
I've given money to the poor, but my family asked me if they could borrow $20, and I said "Fuck no." My parents are cool people, but I don't really care too much. They broke up a long time ago and I just shrugged and thought that that was my life from there on. But with friends, I've always lent them a hand, even wearing a girls clothes because she had been 'pranked' with water on her almost see-through t-shirt.
*Side note: A long time ago, a friend who didn't grow up with his dad asked me if my parents got along really well all the time. "No, they broke up yesterday." -Actual story.