Is it normal to never have a nice dream

is it normal to never had a good dream in my life?

Basically, the first thing people ask is what about wet dreams?
Yes I have them but they always have horrible elements to them which makes them a nightmare, I don't think I can really go into details on here though.

I am 21 and I have spoken to people about this and I've never met someone with the same issue. Ever since I can remember dreaming and my first dreams where about monsters mostly my family becoming monsters or being monsters in disguise.

I also had my first sleep paralysis when I was about 6 and saw an alien party gathering in my grandparents house where I was sleeping. I have suffered from sleep paralysis and horrifying lucid dreams over the years but never anything atleast remotely pleasant

Okay so before anyone calls me crazy (or says the typical " its possible you have good dreams but just forget them") I would like to know if there's anyone else out there who has never had or remember a good dream. I've heard stories and always wished I could dream about nice things but it still has never happened and I'm 21 and still waiting.

I would also like to add that pretty much EVERY TIME I have the sleep paralysis there is like an entity entering my room and its gotten to the point where I tell it to f**k off. One night it was literally grabbing my leg. I know I sound crazy but this is serious and my psychologist validates these as normal. I do suffer from type two bi polar but it is not very severe and I have it under control through positive lifestyle choices rather than medication

Is It Normal?
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  • I still have trouble remembering my dreams.

    Don't worry



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  • I've actually had this exact problem my entire life. When I was young the dreams would haunt me and it wasn't until recently that I just.... I guess have become numb to them? Every month or so I'll have one that shakes me. But for the most part I crave good dreams, only being teased by ones that aren't too dreadful or that seem like theyll be good but end very badly. Every time I get used to a type of dream, my brain hits me with something new. Either way, no you're not alone on this. My dreams would make most people wake up screaming, by either content or general feel. Glad to know I'm not alone either -_-

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  • I never have 'good dreams' either, they're always either nightmares or somewhat neutral vaguely creepy dreams. Still, I really like dreams...once I'm awake and know they weren't real.

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  • maybe you have night terrors

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  • I dream of smoking.

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