Is it normal to have thoughts like i do

my wife had affair 25 years ago we hd one son .and she left me i was very hurt.but year later i met a girl whom i got very close to but for some reason i hid her away from my son and my ex . when i look back i was in love with this girl but was afraid to hurt my son and for some reason my ex . why i dont know . then i did something stupit . my mother died and i slept with my ex few times . i then made her pregnant .the girl found out and we drifted apart and i got back with ex .but im going to be honest i think of that girl everyday the pain n hurt i caused when all she did was love me but also i now realise i was in love with her and for some reason wouldnt accept it or show the world .

Is It Normal?
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  • Do stupid things, win stupid prizes.

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  • It's normal for people to mess up their relationships and feel sorry about the mistakes they made once they realize them.

    At least you have learned something... and will be less likely to make similar mistakes in the future.

    There is a slight chance that you might be able to reconnect with her if you can find her and provide a sincere apology.

    I wish you well with this,

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  • I would contact the chic and tell her that but I'm kinda weird

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  • As long as you were legally divorced from the first one, it is very normal for you to date another person.

    Family values have shifted a lot since the late 1990s, which is around yourtime period this happened. Was it shame that kept your girlfriend a secret? Try to find out why (if you don't already know) and work from there.

    If you are not happy with your current wife, get divorced. Don't stay with someone you don't love. But don't also intrude on your old girlfriend's life, especially if she has moved on and has a husband and or children now.

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