Is it normal to get feelings for girl bestfriend and think about her a lot?

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Is it creepy or inappropriate? Is it obsessive to think about her a lot?

We got much closer during coronatime, we would talk every day and I dunno, man, I just started seeing her as someone I'd like to start a relationship with.

She even told me that she has some feelings for, and that I have a, quote, "Marry me right now" side and "friends-only" side. There are tons of mixed signals coming from her.

Is this all normal? How do I tip the scales in my favor?

I'm already the goto male companion, we chat every day from dawn to dusk, call each other nearly every day, she knows I have feelings for her, we meet several times a week unless I'm out of town, and I'm friends with both her parents. I am always her support when she needs to vent or when her mental issues act up.

But still, it's all confusing, people.

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    Very normal.

    Ask her out. On a date. Make It clear that it's not a friend thing. That clears up all this mixed signal stuff.

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  • have_a_good_day
    3 years ago

    How do you tip da scales in yo favor?
    Send that bitch a dick pic. Bitches love dick pics

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    What isn't normal of that?

    This is normal.

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  • cexocra734
    3 years ago

    She’s using you for attention. The things you are doing is not what she’s attracted to. Her future man isn’t gonna talk on the phone with her every day for hours: Your attempt to use your friendship to be with her is beta and unattractive: You need to quit being lazy and find a girlfriend. Once you find a girlfriend, you’ll realize this chick wasn’t your friend. You were being a creep befriending her in hopes of romance. This isn’t the movies. Beta men that can’t get women are the writers to those terrible movies: If she knows you have feeling for her, why are you letting her play you. Then you’re doing everything she wants you to instead of being a man: Women are attracted to male behavior: Your behavior is female: Draw the line, tell her what you want, and if she doesn’t—WALK AWAY DUDE. Find you a girlfriend: for real:

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Normal if you don’t meet more women outside your friend group.

    Go meet women so you can not be that sad guy, also it’s fun.

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  • LloydAsher
    3 years ago

    I mean yeah. I think most males who have female friends at least think about them in that way at least once.

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