Is it normal to feel this way or am i sexist/homophobic?
Bare with me here theres a lot going on. So I identify as straight and for the most part this is true, I am a woman who is attracted to men, but VERY rarely I find a masculine woman who gets me going and i HATE it. I have many gay friends and support lgbt rights, and i used to blame my self hatred for these thoughts/desires on my catholic beliefs and upbringing. Also, I have a much easier time trusting men than women. However, after some soul searching I have somewhat found the root of my issue. I have never told a soul but in middle school I was sexually assaulted by a girl. I deeply repressed this. I realized this when a friend of mine was deatiling a sexual experience she had with her girlfriend and I was so uncomfortable that I had to leave. Would this be enough to give me my negative impression of women and fear of intimacy with them? Is this a normal reaction to my life experiences or is this some internalized homophobia?