Is it normal to feel something for your cousin

Am really close to my cousin since we were small an i started to like her since we were in high school but ive never told her nothing an ive been wantingto ask her out an be in a relation ship with her but am scared to tell her every time we hang out i want to tell how much i like her an want her but i wont dare to wat should i do we are really close we tell each others secrets but i dont want her to get mad at me an stop talking to me how should i tell her give me some advice shes 25 am 24

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  • edwininthematrix

    It's normal I mean I always liked my cousin when we were little I used to get into fights with her just so I could touch her, and when we were teenagers she tried making me jealous by taking me to see her boyfriend, and sometimes she used to catch me coming out of the shower and pin me against a wall and even rub my belly and punch my arm while teasing me. She put her arms around me one time and gave me a really sweet hug when we had to say goodbye. I always used to check out her amazing boobs when she wore those low cut sexy tops just for me. She even fed me pizza a few times right out of her hand. I have given her foot rubs and massages. She fell asleep in my bed and I just stared at her and her super hot body and gorgeous hair for as long as I could, knowing how lucky I was. We've flirted with each other every way we possibly can without actually getting it on, if you know what I mean. I will always have a soft spot for my cousin. To me she's the perfect girl.

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    • JonathanOo

      This is really sweet. I had a close cousin before too and its awesome to have such a good friend. Just don't cross that boundary of going too far because you'll lose that special comfort completely

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      • edwininthematrix

        yeah I know and what makes it worse is that she models and has done some acting. And she is kind of the few people that I feel totally comfortable around. I really do care about her, I mean her father was abusive toward her mother and her parents divorced and she grew up as an only child, so it's like I feel that she wasn't always at the best place mentally. I understand that. A lot of times she's acted out and been rebellious and a lot of people in my family are honestly pretty intimidated of her, but strangely I'm one of the few who can see through her sometimes rough exterior to truly see the gentle and kind beautiful soul inside her. If she wasn't my cousin I would be so beyond happy and blessed to have a girlfriend as amazing as her. But then again, I really doubt that if she wasn't related to me would I ever have the courage to even approach a girl like her. I don't know, all I know is that I'm lucky she's been a part of my life, no matter what.

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    • Tony619

      So wat do you think i should do

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork

    Your feelings are NORMAL, and very common. I have incest thoughts of my family members too. Chances are, she has thought about you in that way. After all, she is a girl, and if you are decent looking, she has noticed.

    Start Flirting with your cousin (joking, sitting next to her, compliment her on her looks and nice clothes, and that you like her personality). When you have a closer relationship, then you can work comments into conversations about how you adore her, admire her, and how attractive you think she is... and that you really like how close the 2 of you have become and hope it continues.

    Do things together; go on dates (shopping, dinner & movie, walks in the park, swimming, and renting a movie at home are all common things you can do together)... and just enjoy each other's company.

    IF she responds to all of this well, and when you 2 are alone, then you can start doing things like giving her shoulder rubs, and after of few of those, then suggest you give her a body massage (perhaps with warm massage oil)... and she can massage you too. Well, I think you'll know if she is in the mood for you to say you like her and sexually attracted to her, or just start gently kissing her neck and shoulders as you massage.

    IF you want it... and she wants it too... then THAT is what I suggest - be smooth without being creepy - it will take time, and it it happens, it will be SO worth all the effort. If it doesn't happen, then it's a great fantasy to masturbate to. Good Luck!

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  • Kaju_katli

    It's completely normal dude... Just ask her out in private where you both have a comfortable talk.. Arrange some favourite stuff of her and just express your feelings if she feels the same way that's great but if she doesn't no need to worry just wrap up the date in a funny ending that you are joking or pranking on her... Something like that

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    • Tony619

      I do want to tell her but how can i start that conversation

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  • NUTCRACKER

    When she saw you coming out of the shower when you were teenagers and she came up to you , did she stare at your cock and nuts and did she watch them grow and did she grab your cock and ball bag and suck it or did she get naked and tell you to stick your cock in her bald cunt and in her ass and in her mouth ?
    Have you ever seen her naked bald cunt , ass cheeks , ass crack , asshole and tits ?
    Have you fingered her bald twat and her poop chute and sucked her tits ?

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  • spunkluvr

    The first cock I ever sucked was my cousin's - and he sucked mine.

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  • DanielBlizzard

    Last night i was jerking off thinking of my cousin who is 2 years older than me n we don't talk much but i enjoyes the excitement of imagining her.she 21 n i m 19

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  • Huntey501

    Its normall just dont tell her k

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  • Nevermeh31

    No its not don't tell her your in to go to god that's wrg

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  • freedom2

    I think for some it is. About the same age as you I found I had the same thing happen, but we lived about ten hours from each other. during one of my visits out there we kissed, she and her sister both lived in small house's behind my aunt and uncle, I stayed at my aunt's house while there. after we kissed she asked if we could meet up later that night. I met with her outside later on and we ended up having sex.the whole time enjoying what I was doing but still did it and for some years later we would find time to be together but never told anyone and know one ever found out

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  • CreamPuffs

    Nope it isn't.

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  • timelord117

    Yes, its normal. I have felt that way toward one of my own cousins. But it is a really bad idea to act on it.

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  • Mlopez0718

    These are white people problems. Ew!

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  • Abnormal27

    I mean it's one thing to find them attractive, but that is blood. That's really messed up, you can't have any kind of future together. You can't get married because you're related! You can't have sex because you will create a child with a 100% chance of disability. Not to mention you would be exiled from the rest of the family. Trust me I know I've got a cousin that I'm pretty sure popped out an incest baby from another cousin. Kid has every disability I can think of. DONT DO IT! The feeling you're feeling is a platonic love, you've got a bond, but don't confuse that with lust.

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    • Tony619

      So wat should i do

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  • randypete

    it is normal dose she fell the same for you ?

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    • Tony619

      Idk i still havnt mention nothing

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      • Analandy

        You need to find a girl that is like her that your not related to. Myself I wouldn't pursue a relationship with my cousin. But if your feelings are that strong and you can't get over them. Just tell her you wished you weren't related so you two could have a relationship. Maybe she feels the same way you do and this approach will break the ice. And if she don't feel the same way she won't be creeper out.

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  • karmasAbich

    If she's hot, I can see it. However, I'd never pursue it..

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