Is it normal to fall into depression while losing weight?

I've been on my health program for about a month now, and even though I'm losing weight correctly (weight in fat) and gaining more confidence in my looks, I've found that I've become very depressed.

Whenever me and my friends go out, all of them would order stuff like Pizza/Fried Chicken/Hot Dogs while I'm " indulging " in a Salad. Whenever we're on break at work, all of my coworkers would go out for lunch while I'm stuck in the lunchroom by myself having a Lean Cuisine.

I just feel left out. It's like all of my friends are out there having a good time while I'm all by myself.

Is it normal to fall into depression this way, even though you're losing the weight and feeling more confident?

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  • Its normal to feel down about missing out. but there are other ways to feel good about losing weight. do group activities such as join sports. Do relaxing activities like hot yoga. Have fun with it. I just lost 55 lbs and have another 30 to go to my goal. best of luck.

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  • Which is more important to you. Your shape or those social occasions. If those social occasions are important for your mental health then it is in fact healthier for you to attend them. Just try to order smaller portions.

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  • keep in mind that the diet is temporary and your doing it for a reason

    also, when your not eating enough food, in other words, losing weight, it is normal for your mood to go down. but dont do it all the time!

    also, eating healthy while your friends eat junk doesnt have to be depressing. it could be that your smarter. but also dont deprive yourself of those foods occasionally.

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  • Are they all slim, are you eating enough calories and are you exercising as well as dieting? Could you attend some of these social functions? It doesn't have to be all or nothing.

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  • Depression from eating a salad? Thats a bit extreme, pul yourself together women. Do some cardio, it releases chemicals in your body (i think endorphins) which promote a 'happy' feeling. You'll awesome after a hard workout.

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  • social eating can do this to people. I felt like i was against everyone when it was coming to eat what they eat. Well, on the long run, their fat asses will remain fat and you will be gorgeous. So screw what they eat. Do your own thing. it s not a coincidence 2 in every 3 amercians are everweight or obese.

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  • It could be that you're not eating enough, when I was younger i starved myself, eating about 200 or so calories a day. I became depressed but when I started eating again, I was better. Just make sure that you are eating enough food.

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  • When you are thin you wull be able to have some things like pizza etc aslong as you maintain your regular excercise but until then how about you just take your own food with you and eat with your friends with the food you bring in yourself?

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  • I think it's normal. I've quit smoking before and I missed the social part of it the same way you are missing the social part of eating. And just like with smoking, you have to keep in mind that missing the social part of it is minor compared to what you will gain by sticking to your goal. Good luck!

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  • I don't know why you're feeling low. I've lost fifteen pounds by eating healthy things like salads and oatmeal and whatnot, and avoiding unhealthy comfort food.
    I've never felt better about my appearance, and I don't miss the unhealthy stuff.
    How long have you been dieting? What kind of diet? You may be going through carbohydrate withdrawal, or some such. If that's the case, your brain will adjust, and you'll hardy consider scarfing down some fried chicken when afforded the opportunity.
    Don't falter!

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    • I've must of been on diets millions of times, but this time I'm doing it the right way. I'm not depriving myself, Im getting all the nutrition I need as well as getting a good amount of exercise daily.

      It's just difficult for me, because I was one of those people who always had a good time with friends with good food. It was a daily thing for me, and now since all of that has changed, it just comes as a big shock to me.

      I'm sticking to my goals on weight loss til the very end though. My depression just occured to me recently when my friends and coworkers started telling how I seem less lively lately.

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