Is it normal to fall in love with your male bestfriend?

I am 22,to start with i love my bestfriend.i met him 2 yrs ago In beginning it was all normal we were good friends he and i started sharing everthing one day he said he was in relationship 4 yrs back due to some issues they had breakup.i listened to him and i was the one who said him to try again and patch up he changed the topic.later on as the days passed by i started developing feelings for him dont know how and when he became part of my life.From his side also ge treated me as his gf.But we are of different religion.few days back i confessed my feelings he said he dint bring that love because it would hurt both of us.i asked him to answer in yes or no he said yes but i i felt that yes was not from his heart.what can be done on this i know we both cant have future together but still my heart doesnt accept.It seems so silly but my peace is gone.pls suggest thank you!

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  • So you can't date because you aren't the same religion? That's just silly

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    • Yeah its silly but as i said our cultures are different.also i feel he is not yet clear from his side this sucks me🙂

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      • Your best bet is to just get over him. If he wanted to be with you he would be with you. I know it's hard but ots worth doing. I finally got over my ex and I feel better for it. Still lonely though of course

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  • dont live for ur parents/neibours, u have to live for yourself, just love someone who care about you and who you care about.
    are you a religious country[like there is only one religion ina country]?

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    • I belong to india where there are many cultures so its a barrier

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      • well im also indian,..
        but i still dont belive religion is a problem in relationship
        i belive in one god who doesnt belive in religion [atleast not like "that other religion guy, he is not a human"]

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