Is it normal to dislike my girlfriend smoking weed?
I've been talking to this girl for 3 months that I've known forever and we just now started dating (I work for her dad and her entire family absolutely loves me already. It's a GREAT situation we're in). She smokes weed and I don't like it. I don't want to be a controlling guy at all! So at what point should I have a very sincere talk to her about it? And can anyone give me advice as far as how to go about it? The reason I don't like it is because my family, my friends, my family's friends, and pretty much anyone who has an impact on my life is against it, and if they know that she smokes (since it is made out to be so horrible) then it greatly impacts me. I'm a very selfless person and I have made sacrifices with myself so that I am a better person to her and her family. I constantly ask myself "what are the odds of her choosing me over pot?" It scares me to death that she may chose it over me.