Is it normal to be scared of anger?
I've never been able to grasp the "you can be angry at someone and love them idea." Even as a kid, I thought if my parents were angry at me they didn't love me anymore. (And my parents weren't abusive or anything-no corporal punishment or anything like that-but if they so much as scolded me I would get extremely upset). I CERTAINLY didn't get the Christian idea that God was wrathful, but loving. I also try hard to never express anger towards anyone and I was so terrified of making others angry I developed severe social anxiety disorder because I thought it was better to never talk to anyone than risk offending someone. I also have a nonverbal learning disorder which leads to black and white thinking.