Is it normal to be contemplating changing your gender?

Do what makes you happy! Your happiness comes first.

i'm gonna be honest with you, if you've already gone through puberty then yes it will be a bit of a struggle trying to present as a woman without surgery. do you actually feel the urge to live your life as a woman, or is it more you just want to be more feminine or enjoy doing more feminine things? because you can still be a man and do feminine things like wear dresses, make-up, etc. it's not illegal.

i'd say wait a few months and if your feelings are still there or have grown stronger you should seek out a psychologist to talk about those feelings and the emotions you feel about yourself and your body.

No judgment here but my sister works in endo with a lot of people that have transitioned. She said a lot of them become suicidal after they transition because they thought that would make them happy but it did not. I would strongly recommend speaking to a professional about this and getting their opinion before you do anything drastic. Just my two cents. Good luck with whatever you decide though.

Transition to a full man.

I would be really careful about this, dude. Most MtF transition very badly tbh. If you're lucky then the least you would need is shit loads of surgery.

You can't change your gender..it's in your DNA and organs.

wearing skirts and pink and talking in a high-pitched voice and wearing makeup =/= being a girl.

If you want to then that's your choice.

But we won't force you.

Do whatever makes you feel happy.

Not trying to be a downer but you wont fool anyone. You'll look like a man in a dress. You wont pass. People will point at you and laugh at you. Im just being honest and telling you what you need to hear. You arent gonna look anything like woman so keep that in mind. If you want to live life as a woman just get it out of your head that you're gonna pass and ppl will actually think youre a woman. You started too late. Life isnt fair and ppl are mean. Is it worth going through all that just to look like a dude in a dress? Idk

Its somewhat common for some people to feel and question things the way you do.

The few people I know of who went though gender reassignment surgery and counseling were very far more solid in what they were thinking and mentally experiencing that what you seem to be describing.

Who wants to throw d**k in my jaw whilst I'm wearing pink lingerie?

I am a lifelong CD, first off since you say you have no interest in boys, then you are merely exploring other ways of enjoying your sexual self. When you see in the mirror conflicts with what you are feeling. Enjoy the CDing but stay as you are. I will say this if there had been internet when I was growing up I would have changed my life completely.

I think this is your biggest problem: "it's either a good-looking guy or a cute girl, nothing in between"

You're free to transition, but you're not free to determine how well you pass as the gender you transitioned into. There's no guarantee you'll be a cute girl, and at the risk of sounding like a huge asshole, the majority of MTF transgender people I've met do not make attractive women

psychological contagion.

You have AGP

It's normal considering the amount of trans cult being publicised and normalised. The extreme stuff like being offended because Adele called herself a female and cancelling J K Rowling. So, if you are on social media it is normal to be all questioning.
You'll never be a woman no matter how much surgery. You can certainly adopt gender-stereotypes but you'll always be a man.

It's normal considering the amount of trans cult being publicised and normalised. The extreme stuff like being offended because Adele called herself a female and cancelling J K Rowling. So, if you are on social media it is normal to be all questioning.
You'll never be a woman no matter how much surgery. You can certainly adopt gender-stereotypes but you'll always be a man.

i would talk to a professional before making any permanent changes. however, presenting more feminine and doing what makes u happy is no harm! if it's just a phase then it's just a phase, but i do urge for you to talk to someone simply so you can understand yourself better and make more informed decisions if you decide to transition. :)

You do you, but dont transition unless you truly feel that is who you are meant to be.

If it makes you feel better, do it.