Is it normal to be bad at making friends?
I’ve had social anxiety my whole life and I got help for it and I am so much better now, however I still find it hard to make friends... talking to people I’m good at now, but whenever I want to make a friendship my head starts telling me I’m being too much or they won’t want to be my friend.
I have one high school friend who tbh isn’t much of a friend but I hung onto her because I have no one else.
I’m only realising this because my Grandad just passed and I told her and she doesn’t seem to care.
I recently sold some puppies and just as I sold them all a girl messaged me wanting one. I had sold them all but said If I hear of any I will let you know so for a few weeks I was chatting to her and sending her any adverts and never thought anything of it but she found one herself and messaged me right away and showed me when she picked it up, we messaged for 3 days straight and now it’s stopped... idk how to make a friend of this girl, we have the same interests etc but we’ve never met and she doesn’t really know me. My anxiety is saying leave her alone you’ll annoy her... but would I? If I messaged again in a week or two?