Is it normal to be attracted to men in the day and women at night?

I'm not homophobic, but I'm not comfortable with the idea of me being a lesbian. I like the idea of being with a man (sexually and emotionally) during the day, but at night time I often find women more attractive and desire to be in a relationship with them. Is this normal? Is it just a stage? Advice anyone?

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45% Normal
Based on 87 votes (39 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • musta_been_aliens

    I'm afraid that you were most likely bitten by a lesbian in your sleep and, when the moon is out, you too will seek the flesh of a woman.

    You are a werelesbian.

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    • Redheadedveggie

      This made me lol so much XD xxx

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    • Legion

      ^This

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  • DavidS.

    This is one of the most interesting questions I ever heard and even though I never saw any studies on light and sexuality , when I read your question it made perfect sense...because I know for me too, my sexuality becomes a little more expansive at night....I think that darkness lowers our inhibitions in a way, like a few drinks, it creates a cover...I think your feelings are there but night brings it out more because it allows a blanket around us...but I would think that only those who you are attracted to in day time would be more long lasting

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  • ashes.=D

    My sister yes what about my sister oh Yes that im in love with her yes and im in love with my sister to thats why im moving to euegen soon to be with her, go ahead hope that laptop in yummy in your tummy homie cuz every bit of it is true

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  • ashes.=D

    Im female as well, iv been bi all my life and i think your bi curious, you should maybe try experimenting with a women to see how you feel about it, and remember nothing is wrong with being bi or lesbian, you shouldnt ever be ashamed of anything, and i think every girl at some point in there lifes have some kind of attraction tords other women, when i was in high school my junior year this tall blond that was a frosh cought my eye in health class and she kept looking at me and smiling so a couple days latter i sayed hi and we started talking got each others phone number and about a week latter i asked if she was straight, or bi? And she said straight, and she had asked the same and i let her new that i had been be for like my antier life and she was like "wow" lol, but she addmited to me she had an attraction to me that she had never had before with a women, and get this she had never kissed or even thought about a women before me so i felt pretty special haha, so i ask her if she would like me to show her a new light of a relationship, but there was a catch she didnt want anyone to Know she was experimenting a relationship with a nother women so we didnt tell anyone, she was afrad that her friends would leave her and not like her anymore because of it, and i tryed to tell her that if her friends didnt accept her for who she is then there not real friends, but i under stood two that its a hard thing to do, but anyway sorry for the long story, i just wanted to share that, haha so its posible for one person to change your life just like that, from compleatly straight to bi, i hope you find that person to.;) good luck

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    • What about your sister? Forgot about her did you? To people wondering, click on their profile and check their comments. If a word of what they say is true, I'll eat my laptop.

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  • bebop3773

    I'm the same way! I'm female I have lesbian friends (they all swear I'm bi) but I like guys I just think I'm attracted to the emotional sense of females idk?

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  • kentlad121

    do you mean at night... after a few drinks? if so, that is normal! and yes, you are like 75% of women who are bi-curious and seek the sensuality of a woman, but ultimately want to have a family with a man.

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  • Peptox

    You're bi, sorry.

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  • Darkoil

    In the cold light of day a lot of choices seem wrong.

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  • kyanviado

    What about during dawn or dusk do you fancy both

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