Is it normal to be afraid of rejecting people?

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It just feels awkward and uncomfortable. I block on Facebook and ignore. They tried a few years ago and then again recently. I never implied any interest and consistently ignore. At work I’m friendly and professional. Thankfully the person isn’t on my shift but if I do overtime I’ll see em.

It’s like I’m being forced to acknowledge confront and deal with this cringey uncomfortable thing. Even without a direct rejection isn’t it obvious?

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Based on 13 votes (11 yes)
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  • Cuntsiclestick
    3 years ago

    I used to be afraid of rejecting people, but then realised
    "why should I care? People are replaceable. They'll get over me in a week."
    Then it became easy.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    I don't care much about rejection.
    If it's someone I hardly know I just stop talking to them. Not my problem.
    If it's someone I know well I tell them straight up i'm not interested, if they don't get it I have no problem blocking.

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