Is it normal to be a female and not want kids

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is it normal to be a female and not want kids. I have thought about it and I just don't want any. I have nieces and nephews and ever since that I was absolutely sure I didn't want kids I dont like them. I can only handel kids for a couple of hours then I need a drink. then this may sound wrong but I don't want the responcibility of a kid. And I dont feel bad about it, is that a negative thing?

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    6 years ago

    It's not a bad thing. I'm a woman that has no intention of having kids either. I don't have the patience to deal with them. I also like my freedom, being stress free, and I like having nice things. People don't get it though. They look down on me, they tell me that I'm selfish, and that it's my duty to spread my genes. Their whining is pretty funny. XD

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  • samiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
    6 years ago

    Just cuz ur a girl doesn't mean your sole purpose is to have babies

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  • xneonkittyx
    6 years ago

    I am female too, and I hate kids and am never gonna have any.

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  • StinkyPickle
    6 years ago

    The answer is obvious. Would you want to be your own kid and have a Mother than doesn't like you and drinks because of it? No thanks. Don't ever get pregnant and there will never be problems.

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    More people should think like you. Kids suck, they're needy and stupid and annoying. They're a ton of responsibility. People look at you like you're dodging some kind of life requirement of adulthood or something, but thats cause they're mad they got knocked up.

    Most of those people on social media going on and on about how blessed and crap they are cause they have a kid now are full of it. They had a kid by accident and since they've never had a job before "stay at home mommy" is now the hardest job on earth.

    Way I see it, having kids is great as long as you don't want anything else out of life.

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  • JohnMcBain1967
    6 years ago

    Yeah it's normal. My wife and I decided to have no kids because we just aren't interested. There's too much financial responsibility, then there's all the shit filled diapers that you have to change with midnight feedings etc. And on top of that all my wife's sisters have had kids and have all sorts of women problems if you know what I mean, and my wife is completely healthy. Kids are for some but not all

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  • LolitaBlack
    6 years ago

    I think it's totally normal! I've had to take care of my little sister ever since she was born. She 12 years old now and I still have to care for her. This experience has made me not want to have any kids.

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  • Redrick
    6 years ago

    Were here to have kids and evolive this planet. But if you don't want to have a bairn it's your free will

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    • fymf
      6 years ago

      It is a big assumption to say we're here to have kids.
      Who or what dictated this?
      Just because we're equipped for it doesn't mean we have to do it.
      Unless your religion dictates that to you.
      In that case it's your decision to follow it or not.
      Priests and nuns don't have kids.

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  • SlowRocket
    6 years ago

    Kind of a waste of a reproductive system in my opinion, but I guess everyone has the right to choose whether they have kids or not, so yeah it's normal

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  • Murun
    6 years ago

    The responsible thing to do if you don't want any is not have any!

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I don't have any kids, and I have mixed feelings about whether or not I want any. I probably won't have any, because time isn't on the side of my biological clock. It just seems like such a massive sacrifice of freedom, and honestly the pain of childbirth then this perpetual responsibility for another human being would just add insult to injury for me.

    I honestly have never felt loved enough by any man to make such awful sacrifice and vulnerability worth my while much less attractive enough to me that I would want to go through all of that mess.

    It's funny, because I totally freaked out when my mom came out of the hospital in a wheelchair after my sister was born. My grandmother told me it was normal for people to come out of the hospital in wheelchairs, but I've never gotten over it. Also my mom told me she had to have an episiotomy when my sister was born so... um yeah, I don't like the idea of cutting anywhere on me.

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