Is it normal that we have friends that want to swap?

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We have known this friend of ours for 28 years. We have had threeways and swapped with her in the past when she was married. She is now divorced and engaged to another man. She wants to engage in this activity again with us and her new fiance but my wife is not interested in anyone outside of our marriage anymore. Is it normal for people to stop wanting to engage in swapping? What should we do about the fact the friend is not shy about french kissing me the male and also fondling me when she has the chance?

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Based on 17 votes (14 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Swapping is all about openness; so be open and express to her (the other woman) that your wife and you are taking a hiatus from the swinging lifestyle for a while (don't give a time period), and if you do start back up one day, she'll be the first person you call (that way she won't think it's her).

    Of course it's normal to take a brake and respect the relationship you have with your wife above all others. Good luck!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Your wife probably just doesn't like the new guy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ... take a break, not a "brake" LOL. Sometimes I don't re-read my posts before I submit them.

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  • mike78
    9 years ago

    The key is talking; talk with both, your wife and your friend. Even talk with both together. I believe it works. Maybe there are some misunderstanding between.

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