Is it normal that this is a huge issue for me?

You sound like someone who believes they've got the whole world sorted out into neat categories of black and white. And that means you sound like a punk kid who actually knows only a smidgen more than fuck-all.

The more you learn, the more you learn just how little you know, and the more you begin to understand that the world is actually an infinite number of shades of grey. Anyone with half a brain also eventually understands that pontificating about their opinions is a pointless waste of their time. People believe all kinds of irrational, really stupid shit because that's how they make sense of the world. They'll only change those opinions when something drastic happens that forces them to reconsider. You shouting half-baked theories of your own at them isn't going to do it. In fact, what usually happens when people are confronted by someone who challenges their belief system is that they will go through all sorts of mental gymnastics to prove to themselves that the challenger's opinion is invalid and their's is correct.

In your case, if you come across as a belligerent dick, that should be enough on it's own to prove to others that you're full of shit.

You just seem, all together, a cunt.

It's best to start you opinions/beliefs with something like...

--"In my opinion..."
--"It seems as if ..."
--"From my experience I see things....(this way)"
--"Potentially i could be mistaken but i've always seen it.... (this way)..."

Also, even when you strongly disagree with someone it's good to say/do

-- "I understand how one could think that way but in my opinion..."
-- Point out a flaw in your own argument, or a part of your argument that you are less certain about.
-- "STEAL MAN" their argument, be fair when assessing the others point of view and it will go a loooooong way.

Finally,
Remember nothing is certain, being skeptic about your own beliefs while pointing out that you still feel like your opinion is just beyond %50 of certainty ( not by saying that, just in the essence of how you phrase things) is a better way to get people to hear you when dealing with highly subjective beliefs.

It's not always easy to do, but strive to be less of an "absolutist" and you will not only find more peace but more depth of knowledge. Also,Realize that others, no matter how unbearably wrong they seem, are human too and often have reasons as deep as feelings you have for believing what they do. Be open to the idea that you could become less certain of yours, and also enjoy having happy disagreements, tell people that although you disagree with them, even strongly, tell and show them that you respect their views, and then they will often do the same for you and/or be more open to changing their mind.

Be a man who isn't ABSOLUTELY certain of anything, it isn't only a sign of intelligence, it keeps you open to the endless wonders and mystery's this world has to offer.
you can still be certain... but don't be "absolute" ....keep your mind open.

If it weren't repetitive I'd probably begin everything i say with " it seems as if"

Strong opinions are fine, but if you express them in a judgmental arrogant way you're going to be very lonely in life.

It seems to me that the issue isn't your actual opinions, but how you express them, so how about trying some ordinary everyday good manners when communicating your views?

You just sound young. You will probably grow out of this so I wouldn't worry too much, but in the meantime try and be self aware enough to understand that a lot of the time when you're spouting these opinions at people you will be coming across like an arrogant moron. I'm not saying that to be rude, I'm just being an honest.

Also, it's ok for people to think different things. You can even be friends with people who think differently. You say yourself that your opinions are very extreme and you insist on voicing them, so it would be good for you to extend the same courtesy to others. I assume you are not hated by every person you have ever met, therefore somebody somewhere has been tolerant of your extreme views. Do the same with others and really listen to them. Even if you don't agree with them you can usually learn something. That's how we grow as people.

Keep your mouth shut. Then join a boxing club to vent your anger and frustration.

Don't forget also that there's a lot of intolerance in society in general for people who have 'unpopular' views. It wasn't quite like this 10 years or so ago when Facebook was young and people still believed in rational enquiry, open-mindedness etc.

I have unpopular views too and I am astonished at the double-standards 'right-thinking' people have. I do my best to speak diplomatically, not raising my voice, distinguishing between the issue and the person, repeating that I respect their right to disagree, not blaming, not using 'shaming' arguments or shoddy emotional reasoning, and conceding the flaws in my own arguments, while others do all of these things, and yet repeatedly, I am the one who is called offensive. I think that your manner of self-expression would be forgiven you a lot more easily if your views were popular.

Examples?

You seem more of an asshole, than an "opinionated young man"...

Someone who is opinionated will share their views on a subject, but won't argue with everyone else just for the sake of arguing. That's just being an asshole. I've met people like you in real life and I have no problem telling you very bluntly to shut up.

You say you care about other people's opinions, but you also say you will continue arguing, until they agree with you?! That's not caring, that's again being an abusive asshole...

I read a few of your opinions...

Climate change doesn't matter, religion is child abuse, you can't do anything about rape, animal rights are useless...

These are things only an idiot would say. It's because of idiots like you, we still use coal as the main way to make electricity "Fuck dat there global heatin' if it gets warmer, I'll turn on my air conditioner"

That's idiocy at it's finest...

Also, who the fuck are you to judge how people raise their children? Why is religion abuse? Let me ask you something OP, is raising your children vegan abuse? If you say no, it proves that you're wrong.
Cause one is beliefs about life you can change yourself as you grow up. And the other is harmful to the body, due to lack of proteins, minerals and other stuff found in meat and dairy products and is actually child abuse.

Also you can't prevent rape... So let's start banging everything that moves when you're a bit horny, they can't say no right...
If you said that to a woman, she'd probably mess you up.

We have animal rights to prevent pointless animal suffering. Many animals are killed for food, fair enough, but the least you can do is offer the thing a quick death. What do you suppose we do? Start filleting a cow while it's alive?! That's something a psychopath would say.

Do you have your head so far up your own ass, you need to annoy people into agreeing with your bullshit beliefs, just to feel a little bit better about yourself? That's just sad and messed up bro.

If that is what they want me to do, it is their problem not mine. People in this world need to be more tolerant of other people's beliefs!

If you're talking about speaking up against PC culture, then I think you should do it, dude. People are scared to speak out, but if no one speaks out then it's only going to get worse.

Whatever your opinions are though, if you want to speak out about them, then just rationally debate whoever you disagree with. Don't insult them, don't get angry, be calm and rational, if they get irrational / insult you / get angry / then that's on them.

I remember when I was 21, I thought I had everything in life figured out. Yep, I knew it all.
Boy was I ever wrong.

You can pretend or even think you know it all, most people will shrug it off. No one is going to change their life because of something a 20 something year old kid said.

But as for a way to fix the problem of being a pest about it, it is really simple and should cost just under $100.
Go to an auto parts store and buy a muffler for a small car and super glue it to your mouth.
Or if you want that rumbling sound of a muscle car, buy a glasspack muffler.

I'm the same way 😁

You sound like you don't care about what other people think. Congratulations. They don't care about what you think either.

You can't save anyone & it's very rare to change a mind. Once you accept this, you can relax & allow people to like you, instead of foisting your bullshit on them when they're just trying to enjoy a soda pop.

Trying to fix your impulsive emotions? Sometimes its better to be quiet to lessen the heat of the conversation. Not everyone will understand our will.. What I think is, If I were in your shoes maybe Ill just shake my head, try not to care in anything that they say and just think of something that could make you happy.

You just sound über intolerant to me is all. I think it's a good idea to detach from the need to try to persuade people to see things your way all the time. There is a certain point where a debate over politics, religion, philosophy, etcetera turns into harassment.

https://youtu.be/bcdNzMMvF_k

I did not include examples of my opinions in the post, because I don't wanna get taken down, but if you want some examples you help you understand, reply here and ask for examples.