Is it normal that the boy i loved broke my heart in a week?

so i was 12 when this happened, it was the last day of my primary school and me and my best friend were talking about having a boyfriend when she asked if i liked one of our other friends (we had a circle f main friends we trusted with our lives, it consisted of me and three others) i said yes and told her about my crush on the only boy in our group (who i'll name d for privacy reasons) so excitedly she jumped out of her seat and ran over to d t tell him about my crush and to ask if he would go out with me, to my supprise he said yes and we were a lovey- dovey couple we kissed and went home for end of year and waited to see each over on the first day of secondary ( i was 13 by now) after a week of searching for what classes he was in i found him at the library with a group of girls (one of which was my best friend)d and my best friends relative were dangerously close, too close for my liking, i waved and sat down at a computer and did my assignment waiting for him to come over and talk to me so after fifteen minuets of doing my work and waiting my best friend came over and asked if me and d could just be friends, my heart broke into a million pieces i nodded and walked off trying not to cry, as i walked past the table i saw that d and my best friends relative were holding hands, d was looking at his feet while my best friends relative was staring at me with a painfully sharp grin, i wanted to murrder her in the most painful way possible untill they broke up in a year d avoided me and still does and k my best friends relative and i are ok friends i guess but my heart still hurts to think about him

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  • fakeaccount2

    "loved"
    "12"

    nah.
    Im guessing youre like 14 now?

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    • jethro

      I was going to say "last week". And that she is still 13.

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      • fakeaccount2

        yeah I was thinking that she is still 13, the way "i was 13 by now" is worded i wasnt sure if they are talking present or past

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    • Akuma_Yoru

      yeah

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  • RoseIsabella

    The way this is written forced me to picture a stupid anime in my head.

    ...but seriously, that bitch ain't your friend, girl! What the Hell kinda bitch just up and goes to tell the boy that you're into him right from the get go. She didn't even ask you if it was okay. What's weird to me is that you and lover boy didn't keep in touch over the summer break. If ya'll go to the same school maybe ya'll live close enough to hang out. I dunno.

    Regardless, that chick ain't your friend, and she certainly ain't your best friend. Don't trust that bitch with anything!

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    • Akuma_Yoru

      thanx

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  • Avi

    First off, both of you were young and boys tend to be way more immature than girls. More so, in a world so centered on dating and fast living and so full of fake and selfish people, boys are desperate to fast-date anyone they can. They will try anything in order to prove themselves that they can do it. It boast their ego which is most likely either infatuated or diminished by society norms and childhood taught beliefs.
    Secondly, don't you dare be hard on yourself over his decision. You did nothing wrong. Kids your age happen to fall in love, but it's the ones who back out fast who are most of the time to blame for irresponsability.

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    • Akuma_Yoru

      thanx

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  • e51pegasi

    Do they not teach writing paragraphs at school anymore?

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  • rayb12

    What you have to understand most importantly is that this was NOT personal. This could have happened to any girl he met.

    You are just as worthy of love as you always were. This was bad luck and nothing more.

    You have to adjust to a place where you can open your heart again, or this moment will be something your mind identifies with for the rest of your life. And you do not want this! lol

    Don't let this be a story of getting down, but one of getting up

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    • RoseIsabella

      Right on! Hopefully she can meet a nice boy would isn't being manipulated by her best frienemy.

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      • Akuma_Yoru

        thanx

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    • Akuma_Yoru

      thanx

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