Is it normal that sex doesn't feel that good to me?

90% Normal
7 Comments

So I'm not new to sex...I've had it plenty of times with one guy. I know the issue here isn't that I'm new to sex, but it just doesn't feel that great. It's always felt "good" but not amazing like people always describe it. I can't really say if he's good or bad in bed because I have no other person to compare him too. So is it normal that sex doesn't feel that good for me? Any tips to help it?

Voting Results
90% Normal
Based on 10 votes (9 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 7 )
  • 69
    10 years ago

    maybe you're with the wrong partner. even if you love someone very much sometimes the sex just sucks. it's a fuckin bummer

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • quentari
    10 years ago

    It's probably just that you haven't found out what you like yet, so your partner doesn't know either. Of course, not enjoying sex all that much isn't a big deal anyway, some people just never get that into it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • Maya05
    10 years ago

    Do you ever try and change things up with your partner? If not, I'd suggest trying new things to 'spice things up.' Who knows you may find a different method that you find more pleasurable. But if that doesn't work don't worry. Sex is different for everyone, some people love it, others don't care for it. It all depends on the person.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • cs92
    10 years ago

    try different positions. some feel like hardly anything is happening and others feel 1000x better.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • nikkdikk
    10 years ago

    I'm a guy and I don't have sex often for I'm shy, and im def not gay. I tried it, wasnt that interested. Anyways, sometimes when I have sex I can't keep my D hard. It's weird. I love fucking them but.. It's like at first its really fun and exciting but then I get soft and it's embarrassing. The first 2 times I had sex I could keep a hard on for hours but now I've been flaky. My only idea is that I need to hit a virgin cuz im a masturbator. So yeah, from a dude, you are normal. Perhaps like myself and not tight enough pussies, you may have become used to his way of fucking. I say you should change positions often and go at it at different angles. Perhaps add some foreplay, music, and candles to feel more erotic and u may get your game back on! Throw some long hot beats on the stereo and fuck each other to the rhythm. Try some adventurous sex or challenges. Such as fucking somewhere wild. Perhaps your feelings to pleasure him will turn yourself on. Do you try several other tactics to feel erotic with sex? I shall try these methods too, but perhaps my ideas can help you out as well. Good luck with feeling horny and I wish the best of luck and pleasure for you hun!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • quentari
      10 years ago

      Sounds like you need to stop masturbating for a week or so, not get a virgin with a "tighter pussy"

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      2
      2
  • Mikki_Dee's
    10 years ago

    You need a Quarter Pounder with cheese, then it will feel good to you.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0