Is it normal that my girlfriend is unsure about a threesome?

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i have been with my girlfriend for a few years. we are in our early 20s and she isnt too adventurous when it comes to sex. recently i asked her if she would be interested in a threesome with another guy as it would be a huge turn on for me watching her being pleasured. She hated the idea and still kind of does! She thinks it would be cheating if she was with another guy even if i was there. She also thinks it would be scary.

Recently though we were kind of talking about it and she told me that she would be interested in having a threesome with another girl and that she has been thinking about it for awhile. but she doesnt want me doing anything with the third girl! we have been watching lots of threesome videos with 2 girls and a guy recently and she has been getting really turned on watching them!!!

the thing is if i try take it to the next step she just says ill deco do it some day but just not right now.. so its made me worried about how to talk to her about it without being pushy. obviously i want to move things foward and do it but how do i tell her that?? and do i have a chance of a threesome with another guy and her?

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    If she doesn't want to do it, then she doesn't want to do it. Just drop the idea.

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  • tjb
    11 years ago

    What Danny said. If you really care about her then you won't push the issue. If she wants to do it she will let you know. Otherwise, shut it.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    You won't be able to persuade her to have a threesome with another guy if she doesn't want to. Just relax and go with the flow, she'll let you know when she's ready. So much can go wrong during a threesome, and I'm sure you don't want her to hate you forever because you pushed her to do something she wasn't ready for.

    And once the gilr/girl/guy threesome is over, suggest again the guy/guy/girl threesome (only if she liked the girl/girl/girl) because she might be more open to the idea.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Hmm, honestly it sounds like she's a little too uncertain of the entire situation. Maybe in time she could come around to the idea... but she thinks it's cheating with a guy, but not with a girl as long as *you* don't touch the girl? Sounds like she's a bit confused at the moment, you wouldn't wanna push the issue and confuse her more.

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