Is it normal that my girlfriend is like this?

26% Normal
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Okay well me and my gf started dating on the 1st and I mean I felt like things were rushed a little but she doesn't seem to have a problem with it.. Now she has a complete tool of an ex and he is always texting her to call him or to pick him up from work or something... I don't like it and I told her that it makes me feel uncomfortable but all she says is I know.. Once she said she would always care about him and she couldn't help it.. Her ex threatens to kill himself if she doesn't talk to and I feel like she is hiding things.. She dated him over a year ago.

We started dating about a week and a half ago and we have already had sex once.. I was nervous and I couldn't really ermmm perform well? So we only did it for like 15 seconds... But she still took my virginity.. So naturally even though we have only been dating for a little I am really attached already.. Like we kiss a lot but age jus doesn't talk to me about what bothers her.. And gets mad when I push to try and talk to her about it.. Advice?? Is her behavior normal?

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26% Normal
Based on 47 votes (12 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Ahahahahahah!!!! Only 15 fucking seconds!?!?!?? Bwahhahaha!!!!

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  • regane
    13 years ago

    15 seconds, stop bragging!

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  • megadriver
    9 years ago

    Just for 15 seconds? Dude...

    If you like a girl and she likes you, there is no worrying about sex. You just do it. If you worry, the relationship isn't strong enough.

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  • 928346721
    13 years ago

    hehehe 15 seconds!?!?!

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  • Tamira
    13 years ago

    It is normal for her to still care about her ex, but it is a bit worrying that she aparently let's herself be manipulated by him.
    It's also not realy good that you two don't talk through your problems and that she is dismissive of your feelings.
    Still, if she feels bad and does not want to talk, give her time. - Yes, it is important to talk with your partner, but sometimes you have to sort through your feelings alone before you can talk aobut them. - In this case she might need you to give her some space and time for doing this.
    If you push her to much to tell you how she is feeling it will only annoy her (as you realized already) and might make her clam up even more.
    Tell her that you are always there if she wants to talk - and leave it at that.

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  • russellnb
    13 years ago

    It is normal with a lot of people but it is not good especially with someone whom you are committed to to the point of sex.

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  • jonvenom
    13 years ago

    without trust there is no relationship. Personally my girlfriend and me tell each other everything. When something bothers us whoever of the opposite sex texts us, if we replied, and she hated my ex/bestfriend who i couldn't ever let go but i decided to keep my relationship with her and just explained to my bestfriend that we can't be texting late at night and hanging out whenever. my bestfriend totally understood.

    as far as those kinds of ex's my gf had one that told her that the girl that loved him killed herself because she loved my girlfriend. My girlfriend didn't care because she had told him several times she loves me and not him.

    and my girlfrined and me lost it to each other too

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  • Gold_Fish
    13 years ago

    loyalty normal you mean? You're one lucky guy some years from now if you can keep her.

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