Is it normal that my basketball coach used to do this?
I played basketball at a small college and the coach would make us meet up and have “movie night” in the lockeroom on nights that he knew there would be a party because he didn’t want us to go. He would put candy in his office and always say “why in the fuck are you guys not coming into my office to talk to me? When you guys signed here it was like getting married and this is a relationship.I have candy in my office and I’m not a mean guy.” And he would get mad and treat you crazy if you didn’t text him during the season. Why in the fuck would I text a 45-50 year old man regularly if I’m in college? What do I have in common with him? He always wanted to know shit about us and the assistant coaches would try to find out what girls we were dating/fucking etc. and go back to tell him. What was up with this guy? This is a serious question. I ended up transferring but now that I look back it’s just weird.