Is it normal that im afraid to let my boyfriend see my boobs?

I dont feel very confident with my body as I only have a cup size 32A and an inverted nipple. I'm affraid of how my boyfriend will react, if he will be disappointed or something. So, what do you guys think I should do?
Thank you for all your answers!!

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  • sexysonofsam

    I assure you that I am 54 years old and have yet to see a ugly pair of tits! All boobies are beautiful in their own specific way, size does not matter at all, the shape is much more intriguing than the size! Nipples whether inverted, long and pointy, short and round, slightly hairy...it matters not, they are all wonderfull to behold!

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    • Demarcus

      Agree with you 100%, a woman's breasts are beautiful, period.

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      • sexysonofsam

        You Sir are a true purveyor of fine art, have a lovely day and remember, "looking at beautiful Boobs reduces the risk of suffering a stroke or a heart attack!"

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        • Owen275

          Awesome!

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    • Blonde_17girl

      Thank you for your answer, I reallly appreciate it!!

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      • sexysonofsam

        Have a great day!

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  • kellyt6

    I have the same exact thing as you do. Eventually you don't even think about it anymore and just go for it! Just have fun, be yourself, and be safe!

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    • Blonde_17girl

      Thank you! I'll follow your advice :)

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  • Terence_the_viking

    BEWBS.

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  • chickennuggets

    I assure you that he won't complain if you show him a little or tease him. I suggest that you hold off on showing him any private skin (showing any skin of your breasts or genitals or butt) unless you're fully prepared for any possible repercussions it could have. I also suggest that you hold off on having a sexual relationship with him until you two have fully discussed your futures and about if you get pregnant and so forth. I would highly suggest that you follow this order: 1) Discuss the topics I just mentioned.... 2) If you're both comfortable with the responses you've given each other for the discussion, then slowly work your way towards a sexual relationship... 3) Go at a pace that YOU'RE comfortable with while not being pusy or forceful if he's a little hesitant... 4) Once you're both ready, go for it.

    I highly recommend to wait for sex until marriage, but I'm just a little old fashioned. IF you two do up end having sex, MAKE SURE TO BE SAFE AND USE CONDOMS if you're not wanting to get pregnant (good idea to combo birth control with condoms so as to have double protection in the event the condom breaks and neither of you notice until afterwards.

    If you're not entirely sure as to where you should start, simply ask him questions about his preferences. If you find out he's fine with your size but are still in confident about it, you could try maybe asking him to touch them but not really pushing sex (that is if you're okay with the idea of him touching you).

    I'm sure I'm going to catch some flak for this comment, but I'm just trying to give her some advice or support and try and help build her self confidence.

    To finish this all off.... BOOBS AND BUTTS AND ALL OF THAT ARE NOT EVERYTHING THERE IS TO ATTRACTION. Society is twisted and corrupted for destroying what beauty should be, natural beauty. Society and the media are basically forcing the idea that to be beautiful you need to have big breasts, big butts, wear 35 pounds of makeup and dress scantily. That idea of beauty is what's destroying many girls' confidence in their own body and making them doubt themselves. And before anyone gives me crap about implants and makeup, there isn't anything wrong with a tiny bit of makeup. If someone had just fought breast cancer and had to get a mastectomy or a double mastectomy, they have a right to get back what was stolen from them. Being as close to natural is true beauty. Be confident in what you're born with.

    Sorry for the rant. I felt it was a little related to the topic and kinda felt I had to put that out there that there are good guys out there that aren't total pigs and want only sex and society's/mass media's idea of "beauty".

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    • 53739

      I agree with you that's a great comment.

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    • Fresh

      seriously dude the sex talk all you had was say you're normal.

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  • shuggy-chan

    How old is your boyfriend

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    • Blonde_17girl

      Why does that matter? He is the same age as me.

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      • shuggy-chan

        Again yes it does how old are you both then

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        • Blonde_17girl

          17

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          • shuggy-chan

            I guarentee any 17 year old would be so sucking stoked that he is seeing a naked girl that he would not br stressing the details.

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  • Ittybittyprettykitty

    I have inverted nipples and the really sweet guys I’ve been with love them , only had a couple not , I’m on Only fans and some guys love them , Ittybittyprettykitty

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I wish I had 32A breasts with inverted nipples. Yours are not going to sag when you're older. Mine are riddled with stretchmarks and are slightly sagged due to losing a buttload of weight(they used to be perky, but are not now.) Be happy that yours are just fine, OP.

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  • Demarcus

    While he may not know of your inverted nipple, he definitely knows what size your breasts are. They sit right out there. If the size of your breasts bothered him, he'd have passed a long time ago.
    They come in all shapes and sizes, the breast as well as the nipple.
    You have what you have, be proud, share them and be happy you found a great guy who likes them.
    One more thing: Charlize Theron, I don't think her breast size has caused any negative issues...

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  • PeoplePerson

    You'll be glad you have small tits when you hit 40, trust me. Not many 32DDs are looking too shit-hot on that kind of mileage.

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  • bucho's_butt

    When you get naked in front of him he's going to be so overjoyed that he isn't going to seek out imperfections like that. In fact, people like their mates to have some imperfections; it makes them seem more human and accessible.

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  • Charli.m's_Messy_Period

    Talk dirty to him and he won't notice.

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  • jethro

    Do you think he doesn't know that you have 32A breasts? Is he blind or do you wear a very padded bra? I think he really doesn't care what size your breasts are, just as long as they are attached to you. I would prefer a woman with small breasts and 32A's are just right. The inverted nipple thing is not an issue. He can work at making them come out. I wouldn't worry about it. I am sure he has similar concerns over his body. But if you are not ready, I would suggest that you wait until you are. You don't need to rush into anything.

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  • Couman

    Surely he already has a pretty good idea what size your breasts are, even if he hasn't seen them bare. As for the inverted nipple thing, you might want to let him know first, just to avoid an awkward moment where he might be briefly surprised, but I seriously doubt it will be a big deal for him.

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  • thegypsysailor

    If he's so shallow that small boobs and an inverted nipple will mean that much to him, why would you want him anyway?
    Never, ever think that what's on the outside is who you are, and if someone is only interested in that, then they aren't worth your time or concern.

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    • Blonde_17girl

      You're right, and if he truly loves me he'll accept me for who I am, inside as well as outside.

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      • thegypsysailor

        ABSOLUTELY!

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        • Faggot_Asses

          Well that was a bunch of drivel that has no place outside of a romantic comedy. Do you get your advice from movies or romantic novels?

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          • thegypsуsailor

            I speak with young women in a language they can understand. If that means resorting to lines from a Twilight novel, so be it! Whatever it takes to get them under my covers. Just ask my wife 42 years my junior whom I met on her high school graduation day.

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          • thegypsysailor

            Another lil child that don't get laid much, right? When's vacation over so you can get back to school?

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