Is it normal that i want my boyfriend to drug me to do anal?

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My boyfriend is obsessed with wanting to have anal sex. I would also like to do it as i like to experiment and i sure as hell am not closed minded. we have tried it before but it hurt too much. I want to do it successfully but feel like i want to be sedated while it is happening. He said if he drugs me that i will be completely out and wont remember it at all. I told him to record it so i can see. Thoughts?

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    No...that's fucked up.

    For starters, sedating yourself to the point of unconsciousness comes with very serious health risks. This is why hospitals carefully control dosages, monitor your heart rate and breathing, and make sure that your stomach is empty (to prevent the risk of aspiration of emisis- ie so you don't choke to death on your own puke if react to the drugs) before sedating you. Doing it at home is fucking dangerous as fuck.

    Second, there are plenty of ways to ease into anal sex that will make it less painful (like another commenter said, do your research), and failing that, they sell lubricant with a numbing agent at sex shops to help with your first few times.

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  • ntcvolfan
    9 years ago

    You're doing it wrong...just like everyone else said. And drugs strong enough to sedate you...DANGEROUS. Not normal. At all.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    If your boyfriend does it right, then it shouldn't hurt so much. Do some research.

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    • addictedbxtch
      9 years ago

      thanks for the tip. didnt think of that. it shouldnt have to go to that extreme.

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      • Gspyder
        9 years ago

        Pain is meant to prevent you from doing damage to your body. If you are feeling pain you aren't doing something right, and if you do that while unconscious you could really hurt yourself.

        You're muscles probably aren't relaxed enough when you try, it takes practice to get them used to allowing something in the wrong direction. One thing that helps is to lie on your back, legs up instead of doggy style. Another good way to get started is for you to be on top and have him just lie there while you can ease into it yourself.

        Oh, and ignore any bullshit you read about "warming up" by putting fingers or toys in there. That just makes you tense up worse, just go for it, pull out when it hurts, wait a few, and try again until it doesn't.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Its only normal if your boyfriend is Ray Rice.

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    • shuggy-chan
      9 years ago

      ray rice doesnt drug people, your thinking of Bill Cosby

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