Is it normal that i think my boyfriend prefers his ex's looks over mine?

I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and our relationship is great, except for the fact that I feel inferior to his ex in the looks department. Yes, my boyfriend tells me i'm beautiful and this and that, but I still feel like he prefers the looks and stat of his ex. I don't like to wear shorts because I'm personally not comfortable with showing my legs. I have tons of scars from scratching my skin too hard and my thigh to calf ratio is very much off. I have thick thighs and no calf muscles. I hate my feet because I have fall in arches so it makes my ankles look odd when i'm in open toed shoes. His ex has a nice body and style. She wears very feminine clothing and I wear a t shirt and leggings.
The main reason why I feel this way is because earlier in our relationship (probably before we were even dating) I asked his straight up if he preferred his ex's looks over mine and he just told me to forget about it. He pretty much just brushed it off to try to get me to stop talking about it. By him reacting in that manner it makes me think that the answer is yes, and that he does prefer the looks of her over me.

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  • MR.mr

    3 things

    1 yes it's normal

    2 he might prefer her and I'm sorry for you I know that hurts but there's nothing you can do, as long as he's loving and faithful be happy.

    3 You look hotter than you think, everyone does, he might actually think you are hotter but you can't see it looking at yourself. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder just because you're not as pretty as her in your eyes it doesn't mean its the same way to him.

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    • _ItsScience

      Well said 👍🏻

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  • Nickvey

    he means what he says , he says she is better looking , thats not a lie , just before he dies and you have been with him 50 years he might say she was better looking , but im with you. thats all it means and not much more. sorry but thats just how guys think . it can't be undone.

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  • slasher21

    love is different from physical preferences..... try asking him and compare yourself to the most beautiful actress that you think....
    that means hes not inlove with you with just your looks... he's inlove with you because his heart chooses you.........and i tell you in his eyes your the most beautiful woman on earth.....

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  • Nastynate

    Try not be so neurotic

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