Is it normal that i never pursue my sex life

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sex is so out there now adays.

i never really gave much though on my sex life and i'm 27.

i have sex urges like everyone but i never pursue a partner.

i masterbate alot that's it tho. but the though of comeing up to a girl and talking about sex get's me scared cause i dont know what she want and if i miss up i'll be laugh at and talked about.

this had happen to me be for and it hurt me badly in fact it happen a lot of times.

is this normal to happen to a lot of guys.

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Based on 42 votes (33 yes)

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cycloneash

9 years ago

Yeah it's normal in my opinion, I'm in a relationship, and yet we don't pursue it. We are either too busy/have other things to do or don't really want to.

I myself, don't really believe sex is make or break in a relationship, and you can live your life completely without it

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Hamid37USA

9 years ago

Why you no buy wife at Walmarket?

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- green_boogers
  
  9 years ago
  
  In America, we buy sex at fuckbook.com. You should check out this site and talk to ladies.
  
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    9 years ago
    
    it cost i hate sites like that
    
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Flare94

9 years ago

It's not common to not have a sex life. In fact as far as sex you can wait as long as you please. You don't always have to relate the thought of a female with sex. You can be in a relationship with a women, and sex doesn't ever have to occur. You can have a ton of girlfriends just to get to see what your type is, and to pick the right one for a long term relationship. At 27 you don't need to have sex, but I would suggest you try to find a girlfriend. Be single up until the age of 27 suggest to me that something my be psychically or socially wrong with a person.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  that's me i been single most my life. i only had a few girlsfriends in my life.
  
  i don't talk to anyone for many reason's but mostly have to relate with my past and up bringing.
  
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  - Flare94
    
    9 years ago
    
    Hey don't make excuses, you seem like a self aware down to earth guy. Make you sure you're grooming yourself properly. You know brush and floss your teeth, clip and file your finger and toe nails, and bathe regularly. Wear cologne, and have confidence in yourself. It's not hard to find a significant other, also make sure you can provide, protect, respect, and entertain your women. And You'll be just fine trust me.
    
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    - green_boogers
      
      9 years ago
      
      And walk with a bit of swagger while being very aware of your balls. Women pick up on this at a subconscious level.
      
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      - EccentricWeird
        
        9 years ago
        
        Interesting advice, mucus-guy.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        what does mucus mean?
        
        and besides i cant find it easy to give my self up like that.
        
        i realize sex is very powerful,and that's sad to me, why, cause it causes so much problems between people.
        
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        green_boogers
        
        9 years ago
        
        Gladly obliged.
        
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        so they can tell whos confident and whos not.
        
        thats not a hard thing to detect even i can do that.
        
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        green_boogers
        
        9 years ago
        
        Yep. I find that women think that the "ball awareness" type of confidence is irresistible provided that you are cocky and funny.
        
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Goomats

9 years ago

Go have some sex. Find some love. Live.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  That's a very smart thing to say not just to me but to anyone you said it so natural and loving at the same time like its ok your only human kind of way.
  
  you said just want i needed to hear.
  
  i can feel the compassion.
  
  thank you.
  
  watch this please.
  
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoYtHt2uz3I
  
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  - Goomats
    
    9 years ago
    
    No problem. :-) I am glad you sought inspiration in my advice. I have been the lonely masturbator and I am currently in a loving real relationship. I know how these things go.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      thanks its best to talk with someone who understand.
      
      i want to ask why do u need a companion
      
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      - Goomats
        
        9 years ago
        
        I guess NEED isn't the word, but a good companion is MUCH BETTER. First of all, if you are fantasizing about sex with another person, it's probably a tip off that you want to have sex with another person (other than yourself). Having what you want is always better than just wanting it and not getting it.
        Second of all, a companion is a person, a friend-someone to cheer you up after a bad day at work. Someone to tell you that you're good looking. Someone to party with, watch movies with and travel with. A boyfriend/girlfriend is more than a sex partner.
        Also, a companion can expand your world. I was never much of a KISS fan, but my BF wanted to see KISS with me and I went and it was REALLY AWESOME!!
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        i'm typeing so damn much
        
        all my life that's what i though a girlfriend was for but i tried and never found one.females ruin my life to a great deal i need to get out of this ghetto life style cause there's nothing normal i see about it.
        
        haveing what u want is better then not haveing it at all but most time's in are life what we want is not wat we need and many take advantage of life and ruining other's life i tried a great deal in a good way to get wat i want but i realize there's nothing positive in getting what i want i have to do bad thing's that the lord jesus christ don't want me to do.
        
        i have to lie i have to manipulate i have get crazy i have hurt other's i have cause pain on other's this is what life taught me.
        
        i want to do good thing's in life i want to grown my being into becomeing someing good of a human being a awesome person.but people are ruining my life like i'm
        
        i want sex but in a moment in my life i really did't express my sexuality only cause i notice something's my whole family been lieing to me for most my life never had any help on female's are even being tought how to get girls are what's right so i try to teach my self in jesus christ way but that just fucked me up so much more i was honest respectful loveable careful and selfishless and because of that i was attacted in a bad way.
        
        i remember when i was 15 i had a friend that i been friend with for 10yrs and his dad came up to him and was like son come with me i'ma teach you family trick on how to get girls its a family tridition so he went and sense i felt like i was apart of the family i had the courage to come to his dad and ask him can you teach me he looked back at me with anger and said quote
        
        ask your dad to teach you.that hurt like helll inside cause he said it to me with anger.
        
        besides when i talk to girl's they end up talking to other people about me i hate that so much .i was talking to this girl and said hi to her from time to time and then in doing so she was talking to a guy about me weather wat to do and i see what was going on and i felt bad like damn why could't you come up to me i was so pissed off cause she exposed me and i hated that so much and because of that i did't want to talk to her anymore and i stopped and never saw her again. and i knew they was talking to me cause the was keep looking back and forth at me.
        
        i don't want people knowing that i had are have sex and who i have sex with i feel bad when people know this. is this normal
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        i just read the first part of your question and to be honest i don't fantasize about having sex with people if i do it well be for like a few time's in a blue moon.
        
        even if i have sexuely urges for someone like omg she's hot i still don't fantasize about having sex with her later.
        
        i mite think about her like i could of missed a good friend are something else but i wont fantasize about her pussy are having sex with her.
        
        and i never get a hard on by looking at a girl only if i have't masturbated for a few days. i use masturbation to calm my nerve's and it works very well. is any of this normal?
        
        people be concern that i don't have sex when girls be wanting to have sex with me.
        
        truly i hate the fact of being exposed to society about sex only cause sex is so over rated in such a high stander's way there's no more moral any more in society.
        
        and you are to be though of highly in a sexual way in society every one have to be. and cause i'm so handsome eveyone have high stander's from me about sex and i hate it so much cause i cant live the real sex life i want to.
        
        my big fear about sex is for it to be exposed to other's and everyone talk's about sex "everyone".its stupid that i have to have sex in order to fit in with society.
        
        i just want to live a honest and loving and caring life where i can grow mentaly and emotional and psysicaly and all i'm surounded by is money money money and hoes and drink and smoke and car's and cloth's and then we do it all again i want to explorer the world.so many poeple dig in other's life so much that they cant live there own life. its sad that people have to go a great deal of leginth to prove there self to someone.
        
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TrustMeImLying

9 years ago

alot? how excessively do you handcannon now?

I've known (committed) folks to wank before going somewhere or before being in the presence of a smokin' hawt chick to keep their sexual urges at bay.

and I also read on one forum that refraining from masturbating makes some more confident and social. something to think about. anything in excess is not necessarily good

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  so you saying its best to masturabate if you cant control your urges in order to keep your urges at bay.
  
  and refraining from masturbating makes a person more confident and social, that's not what happens to me when i refrain from masturbation i attend to go somewhere so i can do my thing.
  
  and you saying anything in excess is not good, what do you mean by this
  
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fullhouse

9 years ago

I think u put urself out there n face it. If u dont you'll never get over it. Relationships are not totally necessary but it's a fact that single males after 40 have higher suicide rates. That tells us that being with someone somehow helps.
Don't make excuses to stay out of relationships, you can make a move see how it helps

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  PLEASE READ AND REPLAY.
  
  im not makeg excuses.why you think i am.
  
  and trust i want some pussy so bad right now.not like ima do something bad tho im better then tat.
  
  i been haveing suicidal though's sense i was a kid, at 9 years old and you telling me after 40 lol, it makes no different's to me, i been in a mental home sense i was 9, i was diagnosis with major depression and sever psychosis at the age of 9, and i have papper's to prove it!!!!
  
  i think cause i did't had a dad and mother there to show me love i been trying to find it some other way.
  
  to me its more then a relationship that's my problem its my personal life like getting a job holding up there and thinking positive many thing's.
  
  besides every time i try my family are someone say something bad to me.
  
  like a few days ago there was women in the pool and i was scared to go out there but i build up the courage to do so and it was big for me then guess what my dad came over and embarrassing me in front of everyone saying things like boy you ain't gonna get no pussy boy get out there and help me play my blues music.it tore me apart and i realize that i need to get away from my family are they gonna be the death of me, they been doing tis for years putting me down when i'm trying to get up.
  
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peek4peek

9 years ago

Do what feels right for you!! And masterbation always feels right!

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