Is it normal that i like being held by the waist?

That's not gay at all, lol. She doesn't seem like the brightest person.

Whoever "she" is, she sounds like an idiot. Maybe she's just very immature and inexperienced. Or maybe she's one of those women who like total dickheads with zero sensitivity, because she's dim enough to believe that's what real men are supposed to be like.

Getting a kick out of being touched in this particular, non-sexual way probably does things for you for reasons that are way, way in your past. On the scale of kinkiness, it's so far down the scale it's almost invisible.

It isn't gay, since it's from a girl and you're a guy. If you almost moaned from a man picking you up, that's gay.

Get a better girlfriend, (preferably one in good shape in this case.) and enjoy being lifted by your waist!

You sound gay to me too.

Its okay to let a girl bring out the bitch in you.

Yeah, I hear you. It really turns me on when a woman holds me from behind with her hands kept pulled back into the soft of my stomach extremely tight, like she's squeezing me in two. I mean TIGHT, with her hands wrenched back into my stomach all the way to my spine. My S/O is fine with this and she's happy to hold me that way if that's what floats my boat.

My little quirk originally came from getting held on laps that way a lot when I was a kid, blame a couple of older teenage girls in my environment.

My cousin for some unexplained reason always held me on her lap with her hands held back into my stomach a good inch to two inches deep, and it was secretly affecting me in ways nobody (including probably her) ever recognized. She often did this openly right out in front of our family, and nobody ever thought anything of the way she was holding me.

This led me to ask my babysitter to hold me on her lap with her hands sunk into my stomach "just as tight as you can." It was a simple way to keep me entertained and fixed in one place while she watched TV, so whenever she came to babysit she held me that way a lot, and being a big sturdy farmgirl she always held my stomach in EXTREMELY white-hot tight, so mega-ultra-tight I don't think it could possibly have gotten any tighter.

I've sometimes felt weird about the way I like to be held, but never gay. But ultimately I'd say it's normal, and certainly if I'm normal so are you.

Lol how is that gay.