Is it normal that i hate having sex

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Im 22 and Well I've only had sex with my boyfriend but, how different can it be? It sucks so bad! He literrally lies on top of me and humps me and we don't do any foreplay. Earlier today he was watching porn got hard and just said "were having sex dude" I tried to get up but he flipped me over and put it in and I was so pissed. I don't consider it rape first of all but omg I didn't want it. And he drools on me when we do it! I covered in his spit and sweat and cum! The sex is really boring to. UGH how are pople so turned on about sex. I only do it because I know it pleases him. But iasked him if he cared that I didn't like it and he said so what...

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  • chewy
    12 years ago

    if he doesnt care about pleasing you and only himself then he is selfish talk to him first and if he wont stop no matter what dump him because if he is selfish when it comes to sex then he will probably be selfish with other things

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    Dappled is right. Not all guys are like that. But most are, lol. And if you get a guy who rocks your world, you better get good too or he will most likely leave you.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    You need to teach him, you will be both much happier!

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  • Adownupadownup
    12 years ago

    find another guy, this one is obviously a douchebag.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Not all guys are like that, and not all sex is like that. When it's a mutual experience and both people are feeding off it and feeding into it, it can be mind-blowing.

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  • somerandom
    12 years ago

    I was in a 10 year relationship and I hated sex with my bf too. Wasn't as bad as your bf, but it was very boring sex. Made me hate it and it seemed very inconvenient and annoying. If i was lucky i could avoid it except for one or twice a month. He never satisfied me and at most it would last 2 minutes. I thought this is what sex is like. Then I dumped his ass, hooked up with a guy that makes sure I'm taken care of first and lasts 30+ min. And now I LOVE sex. Can't get enough!

    Get yourself a new man, one who cares and thinks about your needs and wants first!

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  • MakienzyGirl11
    12 years ago

    Get a new man. He obviously sucks at sex

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    • shuggy-chan
      12 years ago

      YeAh ^^^ And WTF slobbers on you, Fuck. I think u can do better then a sweaty pig-man. And no foreplay too, lame-o. Idk if it normal, but probaly, that as a guy i pride myself on getting the girl super horny and ususally wet before i even start to have "sex" sex. Hey what can i say teasing is fun >=D

      But really, you need to find a guy that #1 enjoys to try to make u satified in bed (no one likes a selfish lover) and #2 start screening the guys you date, so u don't get another slobberer.

      I only drool a lil in my sleep =P haha

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      • Tryme
        12 years ago

        Yeah I think Ill break up with him tommorow. I know its shallow to break up with a guy for sex but, Its gross and miserable...

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