Is it normal that i feel like everybody hates me?

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I didn't have the greatest rep in high school,which I think is partly due to having undiagnosed asperger's syndrome. I was also bullies occasionally by about ten diff.people. However,that's all stopped in college,and I have many more friends;yet I always feel like im failing them and theyre gonna hate mw for my past. Are these feelings remotely normal,and if so,how the hell do I cope?

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  • Over.worked.Under.paid
    12 years ago

    I say you need to talk to someone. Anyone who is willing to help. A therapist. Usually one the same sex as you helps. Unless you would rather have it from the opposites POV. Either helps. Bu talk to someone. I'm assuming there are deep hidden secret things that really need to be taken care of.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    dont worry no one will hate you for your past and if you past is that you were bullied then its a fact no one will hate you for that not to mention since you were bullied and now arent you havent developed into who your ment to be yet so the people around you will have the pleasure of seeing who you turn into :)

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago

    Dude, listen. We all did stupid shit in high school that we regret. I know I did. And everyone else I know did. Think about it this way. Do you remember everyone from high school, and every little mistake they made? Even more so, do you actually care about mistakes other people made in high school? I promise it's a much smaller deal to everyone you're worrying about than it is to you. You gotta move on. I see people on Facebook (ugh) all the time that were "losers" or "dorks" in high school and now all I can think about was how horrible it was for me and other people to feel that way about them. I guarantee that's how most of the people you are stressing over feel about you. Almost everyone was ridiculous as teenagers! I don't even understand why my parents still love me! :)

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  • xspsugarx
    13 years ago

    thanks for the advice(:

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    If people hate u for your past then they are jerks who don't deserve u as a friend!
    Try forget about what happened to u in high school and concentrate on your new college life. Be kind and helpful to your friends and try not to worry to much. Just be yourself!

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