Is it normal that i dont want friends

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hey so ive been depressed for a while now and im on medication and everything. But im still struggling with the feelings that i dont want to have friends. i mean like i dont want any i dont want to have that commitment to always do the right thing and be the best i can towards them. i dont want to hurt them or let them down so id rather just keep to myself. when i get calls i dont answer texts dont answer either. turn down all invites and make up excuses. i wish that i can just end them all so i stop letting peoeple down. i dont know is that normal...?

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  • dat_loral
    11 years ago

    I feel like this a lot.. I could probably care less though. I'm anti-social. I only really have 1 close friend. It doesn't bother me until I look on social networks and see everyone's pictures at party's and shit it kid of gets me down... :I

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  • mmcrunchydoritos
    12 years ago

    I feel the same way :I

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  • random-stuff
    13 years ago

    I do feel like that im not depress its just cause im sick and tire of every body's bull.. I got my own stuff and i prefer to be alone to relaxe and do my things a never awnser my phone or email there are to over whelming but maybe its just because u are depress and have maybe a self estime of yourself

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  • heythere
    13 years ago

    I feel like this alot. Friends can be disappointing, but they can also be enriching if you find the right ones. Maybe Connect with some old good friends for a start.

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  • violentsonata
    13 years ago

    I feel this same way when I'm depressed. I stopped talking to a lot of my friends and going out, and rather than ask if something was wrong, my closest friends called me antisocial and pretty much told me to go to hell. I didn't want to go out or talk to anyone, I just wanted to wallow. Sleep all the time because dreaming was so much better than life. And especially after my friends ditched me, I had no motivation to be good friends to them. I felt like I owed them an apology and an explanation, but I didn't want to explain it to them. I felt like I was asking for attention. So I never told them. How long have you been on the meds for? Maybe they need a little bit of time to work, or maybe they aren't the right ones for you.

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  • Korq
    13 years ago

    Are you always disappointing?

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