Is it normal that i don't have any boyfriend?

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‌Okay, I wanna say more detaile.
Since I was a kid 'till now that I'm 19 yo, I didn't have even a boyfriend!! :/

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 months ago | pl

    Romantic/sexual relationships can be quite overrated, and generally disappointing.

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    • iMadgirl
      2 months ago | pl

      All of my friends had BF, but i'm still searching for a right person.💀
      They'll be wonder when know I never had a BF.
      I thinked maybe it's a problem of me or I did something wrong!!

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 months ago | pl

        Your relationship status doesn't define you.

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      • Millie_the_evil_saint
        1 month ago | pl

        You don't have to announce it. Keep it to yourself unless your date asks about it. Then you can coyly joke about him being a 'misogynist' (as a joke to test the waters). Like: "Why? You think it's gross to date a girl who's had many boyfriends before? What you some misogynist?" (Smile) Make it sound lighthearted like a joke.

        Don't actually answer the question of how many guys you've been with before him. Ask him why he wants to know. Why he cares about that.

        Another joke response: "What you think of marrying me?" (Smile.) "Is my virginity important to you?" (Smile) Like mock him back a little if he tries to ask about your past relationships...

        Only later on, when you feel comfortable with your boyfriend, you can tell him he's your first. He won't mock you for it. It will actually make him feel good about himself and your relationship. And he will believe you because he already knows you as a genuine person.

        Most guys typically won't believe you if you just start out by saying you've never been with anyone before. There's this saying going around that "girls always lie about how many men they've slept with: add 2 to the number she says".

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 months ago | pl

    Not particularly surprising, 19 isn’t that old. I know people who didn’t date until their 20s.

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  • taebby22
    2 months ago | pl

    I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 20, so yeah it's normal. You're honestly not missing anything. If you want real companionship for a lifetime, look for a serious partner. But there's nothing fun about dating anymore.

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    • Millie_the_evil_saint
      1 month ago | pl

      How do you even find a "serious partner" if you don't even date? Like the whole point of dating is meeting and getting to know people. A serious partner doesn't just show up out of the blue. Relationships don't just develop overnight. If you want real companionship for a lifetime, that starts out as dating.

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    • iMadgirl
      2 months ago | pl

      You're right, one of my red lines is peace, freedom and reality feelings.
      That's the reason why I'm single 'till now, but sometimes it patience make me boring!

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  • Gravybubble
    2 months ago | pl

    Overrated as hell

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  • FLeak56
    2 months ago | pl

    Be grateful you don’t have to deal with breakups your not alone buddy i have worried about marriage since I’m asexual

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  • EnglishLad
    2 months ago | pl

    I have a girlfriend, and while she's a very admirable and respectful human being, I still can't help but feel like I was happier when i was single.

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    • ObamaIfHeWasBlack
      2 months ago | pl

      there's something to be said about having the freedom to do what you want without feeling like you need "permission" or something

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  • Tinybird
    2 months ago | pl

    I beat you, I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. I have never kissed or had sex either. Beat that
    Also, kids should NOT have boyfriends

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  • Millie_the_evil_saint
    1 month ago | pl

    Boys in high school are very annoying. They either act super shy and expect you to do everything to get the relationship going. Or they are entitled jerks who expect a 'yes' just because, and lose it when you say no. It gets better in college. Just stay away from the frat boys. They can... sometimes... also be entitled jerks. Pick a nerdy guy, talk to people. Just try going out more.

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  • Somenormie
    2 months ago | pl

    I stopped dating when I was 19, mostly to focus on myself.

    Right now I'm with no one as of right now though I'm now 20. It's for the best that I stay single for a while.

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  • iMadgirl
    2 months ago | pl

    Thanks for advice.it's a good point!:'>

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