Is it normal that i don’t want to raise someone else’s child?

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Seems like nowadays, for whatever reason, many women are single with children.

I have no interest in raising someone else’s child and I don’t think particularly highly of women who have out of wedlock children with multiple fathers. In fact, I think that women who make poor decisions with poor men are entitled to what they deserve—being alone.

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Based on 21 votes (16 yes)
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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    I can understand not wanting to raise someone else's child but just because someone is a single mother doesn't mean they made poor choices.

    For all you know they are a widow. Maybe their husband ran out on them.

    Blaming a woman and saying it's the womans fault for choosing "poor men" is not fair at all. Don't the "poor men", and there are a ton of em, deserve to bare some blame here??

    Many people deserve to be alone, but having a child shouldn't mean a woman has to now live in solitude.

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    • Nickvey
      6 years ago

      rule one , if the father ran away what does that tell you? it tells you a fire was raging and the father ran away. dont run into the flames. poor men = poor men . not some of the time , every time.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    If you have a kid, you pay for the goddamn thing. Don't sit on your ass expecting the working tax payers to.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    Like another user mentioned, you don't know if they made poor choices or not. They could be widowed, for example. As for the title question, completely normal.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    You're fine. Not everyone can successfully become a blended family.

    Though it's an unpopular opinion, and there are exceptions to this, it's true that most single women 35+ have children either from the hormonal days as a horny teenager, a wild young adult, or dating sweet talking assholes. The only mistake the girls made were not having the proper birth control for their lifestyle, but then again most of us aren't taught which is the proper BC to use since having multiple sex partners as a woman is frowned upon.

    Anyway, keep searching. There's always a nice single woman without children somewhere out there.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    let them raise their own kids , you will wind up the sexless babysitter. while she is out fucking the stranger dick. Oh and dont take advice from the ladies , they lie. let will try to tell you it i will be a normal family but you will never be real dad and that makes you the baby sitter while she hunts the stranger cock. either you can be alone or they can. while you are babysitting she might even be fucking the real dad

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Seems odd you'd take the time to think or speak about those you also claim to not have interest in.

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    Pret-a-porter families aren't for me. Too much baggage & meddlesome, or worse still non existant exes.

    I can hear it now, "You're not my father".

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    • Nickvey
      6 years ago

      that is because you are not the father. you cant be the father , you will never be the father . They have a real father , the one Mom chose for them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    It's not the kid's fault, asshole! Be a man and step up!

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