Is it normal that i do not like my mum?

I have hated my mum since day one I guess, my mum do not think of anyone but herself.
It was 2011 when everything really started to get worse. My mum bought a house without telling anyone and she took me with her, but the thing is my dad was working that day and when he came back home he saw the house emty. He called me that day,I will never forget that day because it was the first time I heard my dad cry. About 4 years later my mum suddenly had an idea to move to Turkey (we used ro live in Sweden). There might not be a problem there but I had one year left in secondary so now I am left with no certificate and my mum did not even care about me or about my father. My father still lives in Sweden.
I made friends I love more than my family in Turkey which I know will last. My mum got a boyfriend which I had no problem with but he turned out to be an alcoholic, he drank not even kidding 7 cans of beer every single day and he used to scream at my mum and myself all the time although he treated my mum like shit guess what my mum did not break up with him. After 3 years my mum decided to move to the UK and her boyfriend came along wohoo shocker and I had one year left in high school woow shocker there am I right??? So we moved to the UK and by the way I asked her thousands of times if I could stay and finish the last year of high school but she said no she is afraid of being lonely so she is basically using me. Her boyfriend left her after 3 months we moved to England. I have been in the UK and I have to study 4 years extra due to all this, I was supposed to go to uni this year but that is fine now because from now on I will be taking responsibility of my own. My mum and I we never really get along we don't really talk, she is the most negative person I have ever met. Just imagine someone who is always sad and hate everyone but her. Someone who can get mad when kissing her on the cheek so she can cheer up.

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  • Kevinevan

    It's not normal to hate your mum. You can pity her, not respect her choices and feel sorry for her, but not hate. She's probably a narcissist which would make her incapable of thinking about your needs. Feel sorry for her, as she is a very sick woman, but love her all the same. You only get one mum.

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  • rayb12

    Soon u will be surrounded by the encouragers you deserve

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