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I'm always up for sex but my boyfriend not so much. He is 30 and I am 25. We have been together for 9months and are now living together. I want to have sex at least once or twice a day. I always initiate. Is it normal that I want him so much?
So it's not okay for a guy to want sex all the time if the girl doesn't. AND it's not okay for a guy to not want sex all the time when the girl does . . .
I just hate this world, and I can't say that enough.
normal. Also normal for a 30 year old guy to not be up for sex twice a day, especially if he works. Guys sex drives usually start slowly declining sometime after 18-20 (that's when males usually hit their sexual peak) whereas a girls starts rising as her sexual peak is in their late twenties.
If he's not able to keep up maybe you could try using up the excess energy in other ways? like the gym or taking up a sport?
It's not lucky to desire sex less than once a day but have a partner who wants it more than once a day. That's unlucky for both parties.
No they aren't, you probably just don't know, because you don't know how to please the ladies to make them want to come back for more. Or maybe you need to broaden your horizons from desi gals, cause white girls are some horny bitches, they just don't want people to know.
If you make friends with the right girl, she will point out all of her slutty friends that will sleep with anyone.
At least you get sex! Think about all the lonely virgins out there (like me) and then think about just how lucky you are.
I like this girl, she reminds me of me. I got a sex drive that always makes me want to have sex about three times a day. Once in the morning, sometime in the evening, and once at night so I can some how get tired enough to get some sleep (I'm an insomniac). Sadly, my wife gets too tired after morning sex (she's 22 and very healthy), but I guess I just need to hit the gym again and find another way to release some of my energy.
I think I will take your advice and spend more energy on other things.... Thanks!
Haha, I wasn't trying to give advise as much as I was just trying to relate to your topic, but no problem. Getting a hobby builds character and is an excellent distraction to our problem, well as long as you don't think about sex. At that point it's kind of inevitable.
considering your age its seems you have a high sex drive I can say its normal try talking to him about it
Spoke to him about it. He thinks I am just addicted to sex. He can't keep up and needs his sleep....
It doesn't sound like you're 'addicted', it just sounds like you have a higher sex drive and desire it more regularly. People's libidos vary. Your boyfriend is obviously sexually satisfied with less regular sex.
It's unfortunate when a couple have varying sex drives - but it doesn't have to spell doom. It really depends on whether you can find a balance, a happy medium where you are both fairly content. If you can't, one of you is going to be consistently frustrated.
He should be able to keep up with your sex drive and more if he is healthy and you are keeping it exciting and new for him! If not it is time to change his diet and seek a checkup from a doctor!