Is it normal i think too much humor is a sign of immaturity?
A lot of this is from my experience with "funny" people in early high school. Due to problems with my school’s ARD I was in courses with the "problem" students (it got better by Junior year). I was putting up with their shticks in class like they told the teacher that scolded them: "girl you trippin" so everybody laughed. They also made lots of sexual and drug jokes in between all the cursing and they seemed so entertaining.
I even saw one of them arrested in the hallway and this idiot was like “ehh my boy coming for me. Gang for life!” As of now, most of them are in prison or on their third child with a guy/girl who left them. If you watch Beyond Scared Straight, a lot of the dumb kids on that show are smiling at the inmates and treating it like a joke.
If this is what women mean by confidence and sense of humor, I want no part of it. Is there a different form of being funny that is attractive? I may have had negative exposure in that trash bin called sophomore year of HS.