Is it normal i sleep and dream to experience love?

I'm in love with someone who I can never meet, and I know it's impossible for me to experience love. So recently I've become depressed and I've become obsessed with lucid dreaming to try to be with the person I love in my dreams. I sleep to escape the miserable loneliness I feel in the real world but also to at least have a chance of actually experiencing love, without consequences.
The person I'm in love with is a certain deceased celebrity but at a certain age. I wish I could go back to that time, or go back in time with him to dinosaur times, before humans came along and ruined everything, or that I could go to a parallel universe where things are different. And don't tell me it's not impossible for me to find love in real life. It is.

Is It Normal?
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  • The only way I can ever experience love is in my dreams

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    • The only way that you know of so far. There are most likely some other ways for you to experience love, granted they'd probably require you to be willing to take risks and possibly be met with rejection. Don't write this off as your only hope

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      • Nah I guarantee if I were to pursue someone I had a crush on in real life, a lot worse would happen to me than just being rejected. Can't talk too much about it here or I'll get shadowbanned

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        • What is shadowbanning?

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          • When your posts get hidden from other people, it happened to a post I made recently about it, and then suddenly only I can see it and no one else can when I sent them the link.

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            • No offense to the creators and moderators of this site, but I kinda feel like shadowbanning is out of their wheelhouse. There are a lot of features to update or add on this site, and if they can't be bothered to optimize their own site it seems unlikely that they would bother monitoring a single user to make sure they don't mention this very specific topic

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  • Try falling in love with someone that you can actually be with

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    • Yeah wow thanks, cause I can really control that. Not.

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  • I do the same thing

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  • Be a wanker. Happy wankers have good orgasms while they think about their fantasy partners that are impossible to attain. After you get off, then forget them until the next time.

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    • I'm a girl btw... It's more than just lust I feel for him

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      • If wanking in the bathtub doesn’t clear your mind, you may need help from a counselor. Maybe your obsession is symbolic for a hidden condition, or something like that.

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        • I don't have a bathtub... It's not just lust I feel too... But love as well.

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