Is it normal i love and hate this boy at the same time?

so last year i dated a boy, and he cheated on me and totally broke my heart. it was the first boy i ever actually fell in love with. he wants me back now, and i dont know if i should go back to him because last time he told me that he didnt flirt with any other girls or anything like that, and then cheated on me. i asked him this time if he talks to any other girls and he said no. i really love him, but i hate him at the same time. is that normal?

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81% Normal
Based on 175 votes (141 yes)
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  • quentari

    normal, but don't take him back. Move on.

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  • TheInfamousStranger

    Just find another guy to fuck.

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  • gummy_jr

    Just move on for fucks sake.

    I don't know what YOU did so I can't say you deserve better.

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  • Rodmyster

    Normal but not okay

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  • Jewelemma

    SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME! :O I took him back and it was the WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE! I say to find someone new (even tho it's hard.) a month after I officially left the jerk that I took back, I found the guy of my dreams and we've been dating for 6 years now :) hope this helps!

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  • GreyWulfen

    It's quite normal, but he doesn't deserve you anymore. I would move on and forget about him, or maybe stay friends.

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  • biaj

    yes this is extremely normal, its why so many people in america say "never trust a hoe" or are walking around broken hearted and mad at the world. plz dont b like the rest of the heart broken people on earth break up with him and move on no matter how much you think you want to be with him its just going to end up hurting you and your life in the end

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