Is it normal i feel different than other guys

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Is it normal that i feel like i am the only guy that truly cares for other people?Most guys i know only care about or like a girl for how they look,when i judge on how their personality is.Again,most guys usually dont care for girls or other people,they dont try to help people;like i someone tells them something bad about them the guys just tell everyone else or makes fun of them or just says "oh whatever"I feel like im the only one that truly cares for how other people feel.Lastly what i wanted to say is,I have always felt stupid about this because i think thats no the way a guy is supposed to be, but like i feel like im the only guy that actually has emotion and will cry if something bad happens like a breakup or death where others wouldnt be affected. Is it normal?Or am i the only one?

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  • 343Boy
    12 years ago

    Do you ONLY like a girl because of her personality? I find that hard to believe, I think most guys are attracted to both girls' looks and their personalities. Just because guys won't cry like you do, doesn't mean they don't have emotion. They may just express their emotion in a way different than how you express yours. I don't know how you can claim to really care about people if you don't even believe other guys have emotion. Also why would it make you feel stupid that you're not like other guys if you don't like what they are. Do you actually what to be like what you think they are?

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    So you think that you are so much better than all the rest of us. Well you aren't, get off your high horse and stop your crying.

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    • logan2556
      12 years ago

      this. you need to stop acting like your special.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    You can be good to someone and have somebody else be good to you and it's still even. You can give a 100$ to somebody because they need it and you can afford, and they help you out with a 20$ at a time where it means just as much to you and you are even...........

    People give what they want/can and it has to be enough. If it's not enough, it's you that is in the wrong because you cannot change the world. This is a lesson hardly and well learned from me. It took time and practice and I can't say that I have come to grasp with it at a 100% yet but I am trying my best.

    Expectation is the mother of deception.

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  • TheIntellect
    12 years ago

    Normal. I think personality type has a lot to do with it as well -- Myers-Briggs personality test.. Do it up.

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