Is it normal i cry everytime i see a girl/couple?

While I don't cry, I feel real sad seeing other couples. It reminds me of my own fucked up love life, and the inner critic that tells me "You're not worthy of anyone finding you attractive. Why are you even having feelings for someone?"

"A watched pot never boils".

You need to detach from your desires for physical intimacy, and romantic love. The more you concentrate your energy on wanting these things the less you will accomplish in your life with regard to creative, academic, career goals.

Whatever you do don't waste your time fantasizing about this stuff. Try to be present in the here, now. Don't get lost in your head.

That's why I self medicate fuck what society says if your feeling bad use something to take the edge off.

This sort of mentality is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Unless you got caught in a wood chipper, you can always improve your looks. Hit the gym. Get some abs. Heck hit the plastic surgeon if you have to. It's easy to lay around feeling sorry for yourself but hard to motivate yourself to actually strive towards a goal. Talk to a professional if you need to about social anxiety or what have you. Good luck. It's 2020 and the crap is hitting the fan. Time to man/woman up and get your shit together.

The modern education system is designed to teach you how to get a job. Now how to be a successful person - which includes how to positively develop relationships to people.

Here's a few starter books that may help:

How to Win Friends and Influence people: Dale Carnegie. I now recommend the updated "In the Digital Age" version.

How to Stop Worrying and Start Living: Dale Carnegie

Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude: Napoleon Hill & W. Clement Stone.

I find that few of the modern books have anything to say that are not in these books - and these have more information than almost all of the modern books.

Key though. You cannot prevent how you were raised and what you were taught. You can change that. Self
education is your responsibility; and it will change your life in a very positive direction if you do it.

I wish you the best,

You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself calm down and eat some shrooms man.

If you're just on here for sympathy and to be edgy talking about dying from the current virus in the media you're in the wrong place to faze anyone. If youre bein real mah dude you gotta realize the depression is causing those thoughts. You can learn to view your thoughts objectively through the use of psychedelic drugs.

When your that age you think the only thing that matters is getting a bitch. Few years later you will realise there is more to life. Any way your young, eshk, Youll get a bitch one day, there is probably one sitting somewhere right now feeling exactly like you do.

I'm in the same boat as you because I'm always single because I'm too shy to talk to guys that show interested in me. I've have gotten negative comments and looks of disgust from men in the past that proves I'm not the greatest looking female on the planet. I remember one time my mother and I were getting lunch at a shop in town and there was a couple in line in front of us and I saw them kiss and the guy ran his hand down her back affectionately and it made me and want to spit flames of envy. My sisters and brother all have kids and are in relationships while I'm all alone and unloved and it's obvious I'll be that way until the day I die :(

You know, a huge reason people become disillusioned with their lives is that they keep comparing themselves to others. Quit moping at how well off (you think) everyone else is and work on yourself.

You’re nutzzzz